After college she disappointed her father by not getting married or finding the love of her life. This also seemed to be a factor of why she did all this writing for her father. She was tired of him being disappointed in her and wanted him to see that she did accomplish something useful in college. Cisneros states “ Being only a daughter for my father meant my destiny would lead me to become someone’s wife. That’s what he believed… What I didn’t realize was my father thought college was good for girls…” (1). She felt as if she failed her father 's expectations because all her father wanted her to go to college for was marriage and she had bigger plans in mind. With this in mind, it allows the reader to see how she did all this writing for herself but getting her father 's approval of the writing would make her feel like she didn 't completely fail him. All her life she has felt rejected by her father and finally at the end of the essay we see that her father approves and gives her the attention she has wanted her whole life. This helps the reader see the whole point of the essay, Cisneros doesn’t really care how many times her father has hurt or disapproved of her. All that matters is that she finally did something right and her father finally saw
After college she disappointed her father by not getting married or finding the love of her life. This also seemed to be a factor of why she did all this writing for her father. She was tired of him being disappointed in her and wanted him to see that she did accomplish something useful in college. Cisneros states “ Being only a daughter for my father meant my destiny would lead me to become someone’s wife. That’s what he believed… What I didn’t realize was my father thought college was good for girls…” (1). She felt as if she failed her father 's expectations because all her father wanted her to go to college for was marriage and she had bigger plans in mind. With this in mind, it allows the reader to see how she did all this writing for herself but getting her father 's approval of the writing would make her feel like she didn 't completely fail him. All her life she has felt rejected by her father and finally at the end of the essay we see that her father approves and gives her the attention she has wanted her whole life. This helps the reader see the whole point of the essay, Cisneros doesn’t really care how many times her father has hurt or disapproved of her. All that matters is that she finally did something right and her father finally saw