Okonkwo's Relationship In Things Fall Apart

Improved Essays
The Apple Does Fall Far From the Tree
Every piece of literature shows different types of relationships between two or more characters. In Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe, the relationships between two generations of fathers and sons are antagonistic relationships. Unoka has no intent to influence Okonkwo’s behavior, although Okonkwo dedicates all of his energy into outshining his father’s legacy; while Okonkwo wants to influence his son, Nwoye, and ends up failing miserably.
Okonkwo resents his father, Unoka, and his actions, and strives to be the opposite of him. Okonkwo and the clan consider Unoka to be a weak man and a failure. Achebe exaggerates that Okonkwo’s “whole life [is] dominated by fear… It [is] the fear of himself, lest
…show more content…
In Okonkwo’s mind Nwoye is turning out to be like Unoka. Nwoye is “causing his father great anxiety for his incipient laziness… he sought to correct him by constant nagging and beating.”(Achebe 14). There are certain skills Okonkwo wants his child to know in order to be successful. The skills, he will do anything to make his son obtain. Achebe describes,“Okonkwo wanted his son to be a great farmer and a great man. He would stamp out the disquieting signs of laziness,”(33). Okonkwo will not settle for anything less than perfection from his son. Dr. Jude Chudi Okpala is a lecturer at Howard University, served on the National Council of Teachers of English, and specializes in 19th century and black British literature. Okpala states, “when Nwoye abandons the "traditional sanctity" for "the poetry of the new religion" (137), Okonkwo ruminates thus: "Why ... should he, Okonkwo, of all people, be cursed with such a son?”(1). Okonkwo thinks that he is cursed with a terrible son who abandons the traditional ways and does not learn after his father. Nwoye does not stray from his father’s wishes consciously, yet he still finds himself disagreeing with the way Okonkwo tries to shape him. Achebe touches on how “Nwoye [knows] that it [is] right to be masculine and violent, but somehow he still [prefers] the stories his mother [tells]”(53). Nwoye is a kinder soul than his father

Related Documents

  • Decent Essays

    Okonkwo and his father Unoka have very little in common. Although both are tall men, Unoka walks with a stoop, burdened by the scorn of his tribe. The Igbo people value power and ferocity in their men, and Unoka is not like that. Sensitive by nature, he appreciates music, children, and the beauty of nature. Unoka is happiest when he is playing his flute and drinking palm wine, enjoying the company of his neighbors.…

    • 210 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    How then could he have begotten a son like Nwoye, degenerate and effeminate?” (Achebe 153). By influencing Nwoye, the British succeed in making Okonkwo feel inferior as a father and…

    • 1563 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Every family has a person who brings shame to them like Unoka. In the book things fall apart by Chinua Achebe, the character Unoka is the father of Okonkwo. Although Unoka is a very talented musician he is lazy, a failure, and a coward, who brings shame upon his family. The author characterizes Unoka throughout the book as being lazy and unproductive.…

    • 320 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    In the 2nd chapter of the book Okonkwo already starts seeing that Nwoye is not headed in the right direction, “Okonkwo’s first son, Nwoye, was twelve years old but was already causing his father great anxiety for his incipient laziness.” (Achebe Chapter 2 page 13). This means that Okonkwo already starts to get scared of his sons future when he is only twelve because he is lazy and doesn’t show a sense of urgency. “He sought to correct him by constant nagging and beating. And so Nwoye was developing into a sad faced youth.”…

    • 418 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Nwoye Religion Essay

    • 332 Words
    • 2 Pages

    Everything his father believed was right, counteracted Nwoye's belief. Nwoye was completely disowned from his father. Okonkwo didn't consider him his son anymore. In chapter seventeen, Okonkwo expresses his fury about his son's decision. "... Nwoye was not worth fighting for.…

    • 332 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The concept of strangers coming and causing a stir within an established group is a familiar story within history. One of these stories is the Europeans come to colonize Africa. The novel, Things Fall Apart, by Chinua Achebe shows this story by focusing on one person who is experiencing the transformation first hand. There are many characters and episodes that will show bigger themes within the story. Some examples of the characters and episodes to show the themes are the characters of Unoka and Okonkwo which show, the theme of social construction of patriarchy & masculinities, the arrival of Mr. Brown which show, the theme of religious transformation, and the murder of Ikemefuna show the theme of violence and warfare.…

    • 1108 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Terrified of messing up and getting beaten, Nwoye is effortlessly kind and loving to everyone in the village. He was scared of being like his father, so he began to oppose violence and wanted to be more level- headed. Okonkwo, however, viewed Nwoye was “already causing [him] great anxiety for his incipient laziness,” (13), and was worried that Nwoye would turn out like Unoka. Just like the relationship between Unoka and Okonkwo, Nwoye is scared of being like his father, and is a foil to him (153). When Okonkwo was acting manly, Nwoye was listening to the stories of the women.…

    • 754 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Things Fall Apart

    • 1419 Words
    • 6 Pages

    Nwoye struggles greatly because of his resemblance to his grandfather in character. We see that Nwoye is not so much necessarily feminine, although his father does believe it to be so “‘I will not have a son who cannot hold up his head in the gathering of the clan. I would sooner strangle him with my own hands” (Achebe chapter 4 page 33). Nwoye is just everything that Okonkwo can’t stand he is passionate but lazy. One of the strongest traits that Nwoye is able to bring to the table his ability to feel and sympathy, sometimes even more than the female characters of the novel.…

    • 1419 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    In “Things Fall Apart” by Chinua Achebe, Okonkwo is dominated by his fear of weakness and failure. In the tribe where Okonkwo and his family live, Umuofia, the amount of honor and respect depends on your strength. Since early childhood, Okonkwo’s embarrassment about his lazy, poor and neglectful father, Unoka, has led to his tragic flaw; being terrified of looking weak like his father. As a result, he behaves rashly, bringing a great deal of trouble and sorrow upon himself and his family. Okonkwo’s fear of weakness and failure, which stemmed from his father, leads to the horrid and unmerited treatment he gives to those around him and eventually prompted his downfall.…

    • 950 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    People laughed at him because he was a loafer, and they swore never to lend him any more money because he never paid back. "(Achebe 5) Unoka was a careless man who did not manage his money very well. Unoka also was a pacifist who did not like war. Okonkwo had very much the opposite feeling.…

    • 1016 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    This section will put in effect the three key component structure of Okonkwo’s mental structure. First of the two components are the instinctive judgements that drive Okonkwo’s personality. Okonkwo is a very perplexing character, battered by a multitude of psychosomatic symptoms, one of which is the unavoidable recollection of the struggles of the past with his father, Unoka. Okonkwo is driven by an inexplicable torrent of fear, anger, and selfishness. Firstly is the fear of becoming his cowardly father, Unoka.…

    • 1049 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Jorshinelle T. Sonza rightly debunks Dorothy Driver’s claim that Gordimer’s texts are “male centred” and do not give any depth to women (106). Unlike Things Fall Apart, Gordimer does not marginalize women. In fact, by depicting Hannah as a human rights activist, Gordimer is empowering women. At the same time, Gordimer is also valorising Black women over the White. Sonza says, Hannah is “flawed in her activism.…

    • 1505 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Okonkwo was a rich and respected warrior who brought honor to the Umuofia clan. He was very different from his late father, Unoka, who was weak, sensitive, and ultimately a failure. Okonkwo never wanted to be like his father, and even “as a little boy he had resented his father’s failure and weaknesses” (Achebe 13). This was his tragic flaw, he under no circumstances wanted to be a failure or “resemble his father” in any way (Achebe 13). Among the Umuofia clan “a man was judged according to his worth and not according to the worth of his father” (Achebe 8).…

    • 1327 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Okonkwo Vs Unoka

    • 674 Words
    • 3 Pages

    Have you ever met someone who’s the complete opposite of you? In the novel, Things Fall Apart, by Chinua Achebe, Okonkwo and Unoka are completely different in strength and success with Okonkwo being strong and successful and Unoka being weak and a loafer. Though they may be very different they both share a common similarity, belief in cultural tradition. The differences and the similarity between them is what makes them unique characters.…

    • 674 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    His mother tells fairytales and womanly stories that Nwoye thoroughly enjoys but he must pretend to hate them to please his father. Okonkwo sees too much of his own father in his son and that terrifies him. He sees cowardice, laziness, gentleness, idleness and all the other feminine things that he fears. Okonkwo often beats him physically and berates him mentally for being nothing like himself. “I will not have a son who cannot hold up his head in the gathering of the clan.…

    • 1529 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays