Importance Of Solitude
This cannot be accomplished without being exposed to solitude. Only when I am alone, I can reflect on my personality and visit the inner world I am creating. Solitude not only triggers diving into oneself, but also helps assess life from an outsider’s perspective. When I am on my own, if not a director, I am at least the main character of a documentary movie. In this way solitude easily detects my negative character traits. It also depicts the beauty of the inner and outside world I live in and give meaning to my life. By emphasizing both positive and negative sides of my personality and life, solitude simultaneously promotes and preserves happiness.
The following rule is closely linked to my character. After being disappointed, I would keep distance from a person without clarifying the reasons. This behavior might be generated from a vulnerability problem I discussed above. Expressing disappointment means admitting the importance of a person in one’s life. Only after taking a closer look at my happiness, I noticed that shunning from a person causes more harm than openly expressing my emotions. The last time friend upset me, I felt the need to hide disappointment in the beginning, but followed this rule and promoted friendship and happiness at the same