In simpler terms, a person cannot be denied of their freedom or reason for someone else’s use. The actions of the husband are a contradiction to this idea completely. He is using himself as an instrument to bring about happiness for his spouse. Although it may seem as a self gesture, this type of self-sacrifice is not moral and In fact, another philosopher, Thomas Hill, would call it an indicator of a moral defect. The husband is embodying Thomas Hill’s concept of servility.
Servility is a moral defect, that in Hill’s opinion, is at some points is vicious as arrogance. Hill defines servility as an attitude that defies an aspect of self-respect. Defying one’s self is completely against Kant’s moral injunction. Self-denial is the epitome of the removal of freedom, which is one of the key aspects that Kant points out as being necessary for morality.
However, why does Hill believe this about servility? Hill supports his argument with illustrating three patterns of servility through the lens of three personas that he created; “Uncle Tom” “The Self Deprecator” and, the example which mirrors our situation, “The Deferential