From their childhood, they were taught that they have to obey the guards and they cannot talk with them directly seeing them in their eyes, therefore, when they talk with anybody outside the labor camp, they cannot make eye contact to anybody and they fear to ask questions. Shin, in his starting years of free life, was not feeling comfortable to ask questions to his friends or roommate about his problems. Shin and other defectors do not know about family, love, trust. Shin said he had never once heard the word “love” during his years in the camp (Harden 6). He also did not know what family is. They were taught that they have to notify the guards if anyone from their family member tries to escape. Therefore, they cannot trust anyone. They are used to hear guard’s orders. They are not used to with our work system so, sometimes they seem rude because they tend not say “thank you” or “sorry” (Harden
From their childhood, they were taught that they have to obey the guards and they cannot talk with them directly seeing them in their eyes, therefore, when they talk with anybody outside the labor camp, they cannot make eye contact to anybody and they fear to ask questions. Shin, in his starting years of free life, was not feeling comfortable to ask questions to his friends or roommate about his problems. Shin and other defectors do not know about family, love, trust. Shin said he had never once heard the word “love” during his years in the camp (Harden 6). He also did not know what family is. They were taught that they have to notify the guards if anyone from their family member tries to escape. Therefore, they cannot trust anyone. They are used to hear guard’s orders. They are not used to with our work system so, sometimes they seem rude because they tend not say “thank you” or “sorry” (Harden