Throughout the journey the gender roles become broken down and Ma becomes the leader of the family. She continues to hold her her emotions so nobody will get upset and nurses both grandparents until they die. When she is with Granma in her final moments, she doesn’t tell the rest of her family that she has passed. Instead she waits until they are getting closer to their destination. This is what Ma’s Pa used to say to her: “Anybody can break down. It takes man not to” (p. 213). This is a true example of Ma starting to become the head of the family. She treats her emotions like she is a man and keeps them in. She does this out of the love for her family and to keep her family
Throughout the journey the gender roles become broken down and Ma becomes the leader of the family. She continues to hold her her emotions so nobody will get upset and nurses both grandparents until they die. When she is with Granma in her final moments, she doesn’t tell the rest of her family that she has passed. Instead she waits until they are getting closer to their destination. This is what Ma’s Pa used to say to her: “Anybody can break down. It takes man not to” (p. 213). This is a true example of Ma starting to become the head of the family. She treats her emotions like she is a man and keeps them in. She does this out of the love for her family and to keep her family