Before the war, it was common for couples to get married young and be each other’s partners for the rest of their life. They practiced the idea of monogamy and could be put in jail if they committed adultery. Brett, who is engaged to Mike, has no issue kissing Barnes repeatedly throughout the novel. She runs off with a Count that she met at a pub and ends up leaving Mike for a short time for a bullfighter she meets named Romero. She then leaves Romero as well, seemingly to never be satisfied with one man. All the while it seems as Brett is still in love with Barnes when they share a conversation stating how they could have had such a nice life together and how pretty it was to think so, but they do nothing to act upon their idea of being together. It is soon found out that Brett will not settle with Jake because of his injury from the war which inhibits him from being able to perform in bed. It is this little idea of dissatisfaction that causes Brett to constantly push herself away from Jake and into other …show more content…
He practically shoves the common idea of manhood off a cliff. The story opens with a description of Cohn, who was once a boxing champion. It mentions he took the hobby up in order to “Counteract the feeling of inferiority and shyness he had felt on being treated as a Jew at Princeton”(1). Although it was common in America for minorities to be looked down upon in society, it was not often you’d witness a man letting this feeling of inferiority show to a point where he would take being scorned and slandered by women. This is witnessed when Cohn doesn’t start yelling back at Frances, Cohn’s girlfriend begins to belittle him in front of his friends. She says “I should say it is rotten luck. I’ve wasted two and a half on him now”(54) and even continues to tell them how Cohn is sending her away to England by saying “He’s going to be giving me two hundred pounds and then I’m going to visit friends. Won’t it be lovely? The friends don’t even know about it, yet”(55). The surprising part is that Cohn doesn’t get angry about any of it like men normally would. He quietly sits there and takes the verbal abuse. Meanwhile, it seems that Frances is getting pure joy out of slandering him. “She turned to me with that terrible bright smile. It was very satisfactory to her to have an audience for this”(56). Although the novel is full of ways women and men changes, it also has a few examples of how they stayed the same.