In one of her most famous quotes, de Beauvoir says “One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman.” This is similar to the theme because de Beauvoir is basically saying that nobody is born with the mindset and strength of a woman, but through experience they earn it. For example, Delia and Janie spend most of their stories as meek, quiet women. They sit in the background and let their spouses walk all over them until something pushes them over the edge. In Their Eyes Were Watching God, after Janie leaves Logan and leaves with Joe, she knows that love doesn’t just appear in a marriage. She learns even with her last spouse, Tea Cake saying that “Love is lak de sea. It’s uh movin’ thing, but still and all, it takes its shape from de shore it meets, and it’s different with every shore." Janie now sees that not every relationship should be like her fantasy; love is something that changes and evolves with everyone you meet. In Sweat, Delia becomes a woman when she begins to stand up for herself and stops treating Sykes like her responsibility. Like de Beauvoir said, neither of the women was born headstrong and independent, they had to learn how to be in order to become a
In one of her most famous quotes, de Beauvoir says “One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman.” This is similar to the theme because de Beauvoir is basically saying that nobody is born with the mindset and strength of a woman, but through experience they earn it. For example, Delia and Janie spend most of their stories as meek, quiet women. They sit in the background and let their spouses walk all over them until something pushes them over the edge. In Their Eyes Were Watching God, after Janie leaves Logan and leaves with Joe, she knows that love doesn’t just appear in a marriage. She learns even with her last spouse, Tea Cake saying that “Love is lak de sea. It’s uh movin’ thing, but still and all, it takes its shape from de shore it meets, and it’s different with every shore." Janie now sees that not every relationship should be like her fantasy; love is something that changes and evolves with everyone you meet. In Sweat, Delia becomes a woman when she begins to stand up for herself and stops treating Sykes like her responsibility. Like de Beauvoir said, neither of the women was born headstrong and independent, they had to learn how to be in order to become a