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What age range do most children learn to respond to an adult smile with a reciprocal smile |
Between ages 3 to 5 months |
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The three parts of human love |
1. Sex drive - lust or libido 2. Romantic Love - Attraction 3. Attachments - deep feelings of Union with a long-term partner |
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Sex drive |
Men are more visual then women. men's eyes will dilate if they say a nude woman. Women will not. They would have dilated eyes for a baby. |
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Romantic love |
It's an addiction. You have dopamine triggered. You will have a relapse if you were really in love, in a breakup. |
Obsessional. Stronger than sex drive, it's not a feeling it's a drive |
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Biological |
Pro-create |
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Attachment |
Wanting that person. A deep feeling of Union with a long term partner. |
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The five steps identified for human Court ships/picking up someone at the bar. |
1. Flirting 2. Recognition 3. Grooming talk 4. Touch 5. Body synchrony |
Women flirt with their eyes and heads. They open their eyes a bit wider and toss their hair. men perform a chest puff extending themselves to their full height tucking in their stomachs and thrusting out their chest. |
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Interactional synchrony |
Human mirroring that begins in infancy. as a baby your body begins to synchronize with movements and rhythmic patterns of the human voice. We established people in other cultures to get more comfortable with them |
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According to Perper, what percentage of American courtship is initiated by the women? |
2/3 or 65% |
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What is limerence |
It's romantic love. Your body's hormones create the feeling of Joy. Limerence has a shelf life. It can last one to four years. |
It's the honeymoon period. |
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What is the purpose of Apocrine glands |
They're the sweat glands around your armpits, nipples, and groin. It activates of puberty it sends off scents. It creates odors. It provides a clue to attraction. |
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Statistical differences between homosexuals and heterosexuals in long-term relationships |
41% of gay men and 43% of lesbians want to get married |
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Is love at first sight real? |
No, it couldn't possibly happen. To fall in love you need intimacy and commitment that only develops with time. |
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Romantic love is most closely associated with a rise in which type of chemical in the brain? |
Dopamine norepinephrine - serotonin |
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Average time span of romantic love |
4 years |
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Six types of love |
Altruistic love Infatuated, playful love Companion love Romantic love Obsessive love Practical love |
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Antidepressants |
They drop your dopamine level and that's a part of romantic love. It drops sex drive and creativity. It raises serotonin. Attachment is lost |
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Antidepressants |
They drop your dopamine level and that's a part of romantic love. It drops sex drive and creativity. It raises serotonin. Attachment is lost |
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Testosterone |
This is linked to sex drive. It's the first focus and you don't necessarily love them. |
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Attachment |
Oxytocin vasopressin |
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Technology has changed dating but not.. |
Love |
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Technology has rised |
Sexton, bigger dating pool, and help you meet people |
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The investment model |
Satisfaction - most important needs Investments you've made in the relationship. What is the consequence of breaking up? Children, friends. |
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Back burners |
People you have a non-romantic relationship, platonic relationship, that you could date or have sex with, while you are already in a relationship. It's just in case you break up. |
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Women back burners |
Women have average of 4 back burners The conversations are innocent at first but usually get intimate. |
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Men back burners |
Men have average of 8 back burners it's easier to fall in love and build fast relationships online. We can show our best selves |
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The illusion of anonymity |
Internet identities that cannot be traced back to their real identities. It's an online identity that you can hide behind and not be seen |
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The hyperpersonal communication |
a model of interpersonal communication that suggests computer-mediated communication can become hyperpersonal because it's exceeds face-to-face interaction. The supporting message senders a host of communicative advantages over traditional face-to-face interaction |
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Emotional infidelity |
When you share yourself and life story. Spend time talking to them and creating an emotional connection with another person besides your relationship |
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Ashley Madison women |
90% were fake. Most men on the app were secretly gay |
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Cyber infidelity |
Sending pictures or having an intimate relationship while cheating. Even if they never meet in person. It can enhance your self-esteem and people don't feel guilty. It doesn't change their real lives |
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Netiquette |
The rules online |
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Getting addicted to dating apps |
People become narcissistic and pathological The app has ghosting and so much choice. They use it for validation. They only judge you on how you look and some pictures are fake. When they get rejected they go right back to the app |
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20% |
Of women were having sex on the first date from these apps |
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20% |
Of women were having sex on the first date from these apps |
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40% to 50% of women have an affair |
50% of men have an affair |
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Illusion of invulnerability |
Members ignore obvious danger, take extreme risk, and are overly optimistic. |
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Collective rationalization |
Members discredit and explain away warning country to group thinking. |
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Illusion of morality |
Members believe their decisions are morally correct, ignoring the ethical consequences of their decisions. |
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Excessive stereotyping |
The group constructs negative stereotypes of rivals outside the group |
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Pressure of conformity |
Members pressure any in the group who Express arguments against the group stereotypes, illusions, or commitments, viewing such opposition as disloyalty. |
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Self-censorship |
Members withhold their dissenting views and counter-arguments |
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Illusion of unanimity |
Members perceive falsely that everyone agrees with the group's decisions, silence is seen as consent |
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Mindguards |
some members appoint themselves to the role of protecting the group from the adverse information that might threaten the group's compliancy. |
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Avoid group thinking |
The group should be made aware of the causes and consequences of groupthink.
the leader should be neutral when assigning a decision-making tasks to a group, initially withholding all preferences and expectations. This practice will be especially effective if the leader consistently encourages an atmosphere of open inquiry.
The leader should give high priority to airing objections and doubts, and be accepting of criticism.
group should always consider unpopular alternatives, I signing the role of devil's associate to several strong members of the group.
sometimes it is useful to divide the group in a two separate deliberate bodies as feasibilities are evaluated |
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Conformitive behavior |
Telling your boss or authority yes even though you don't want to agree with them. The Yes Man |
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Devil's advocate |
A person who takes the unpopular opinion |
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Asch study on conformity |
Normative conformity, informational conformity, personal, and Delphi method |
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Normative conformity |
They agree with the group just to get along |
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Informational conformity |
The individual starts to doubt their own reality |
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One person to take a stand |
It only takes one person to disagree with the group, and other people would join in too. Helps destroy anonymity by 90% |
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Delphi method |
People write down their answers anonymously |
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Group pressure |
People will follow what the group says, if they have another person disagree with them they will follow up to 95% |
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Obedience of authority |
You refer to the authority when you don't know what's going on |
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Family primacy |
The first over materialistic values |
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Nuclear family |
If family consisting of two parents and there children |
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Blended family |
Family consisting of a couple and their children from this and all previous relationships. At least one parents in children that are not genetically related. |
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Puralistic families |
Lead back families that the parent allows the children's to make mini of their own decisions and they don't show much interest |
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Leisure faire parents |
To let people do as they please. The parents impose few control on the child's behavior. |
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Family privacy rules |
A family is boundaries in secrets that are kept internally in not given to outsiders |
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Spillover hypothesis |
Behavior transfers directly from one setting or relationship to another with any family system |
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Defensive versus supportive climate |
Defensive climates Creed an environment where communication is threatening. supportive climate greatest base where you can trust in develop conversation |
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Mix status relationship |
A healthy relationship when your partner has HIV and you don't |
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Five elements of a friendship |
Friendships withstand disagreements Friends keep it real Confidentiality is respected Support is unconditional Achievements are celebrated |
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Two major functions of friendship |
What I can get out of it Trust |
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FWB |
Friends with benefits. Sexual relationship between two friends with no expectation for romantic relationship. Problems start when he start having feelings for each other |
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