While I was violating the norm, however, I felt bad to have to pretend to be a poor mother, because when I am really pregnant I would never smoke (I don’t now) and I would especially not drink alcohol. The reactions I experienced were what I was expecting. If I saw an expecting mother doing what I did, I would have reacted the same as the people I saw staring and talking about me. The few challenges I faced were trying to get into my baby body, stuffing a belly into spanks is very challenging; you will break a sweat, and pretending like I thought my actions were just and normal. Conducting my research, I learned that norms do exercise social control, especially with sanctions. Violating my norm had me realize that if I truly was an expecting mother drinking and smoking, the looks and whispers would express great disapproval and possibly make me stop my actions until my behavior/actions are finally rewarded with positive sanctions, i.e., smile and praise. The immediate sanction responses help to train our conscience and helps us from violating social norms. Eventually, a norm will no longer need sanctions or authority to reinforce it. After so long I believe social control then looks like we are in control when really our actions were guided by others control of society. Eventually, everyone will be acting how society deems fit and we will be representing social
While I was violating the norm, however, I felt bad to have to pretend to be a poor mother, because when I am really pregnant I would never smoke (I don’t now) and I would especially not drink alcohol. The reactions I experienced were what I was expecting. If I saw an expecting mother doing what I did, I would have reacted the same as the people I saw staring and talking about me. The few challenges I faced were trying to get into my baby body, stuffing a belly into spanks is very challenging; you will break a sweat, and pretending like I thought my actions were just and normal. Conducting my research, I learned that norms do exercise social control, especially with sanctions. Violating my norm had me realize that if I truly was an expecting mother drinking and smoking, the looks and whispers would express great disapproval and possibly make me stop my actions until my behavior/actions are finally rewarded with positive sanctions, i.e., smile and praise. The immediate sanction responses help to train our conscience and helps us from violating social norms. Eventually, a norm will no longer need sanctions or authority to reinforce it. After so long I believe social control then looks like we are in control when really our actions were guided by others control of society. Eventually, everyone will be acting how society deems fit and we will be representing social