Personal Narrative: My Experience Of African American Women

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As an African American female, there is a constant battle with being able to feel as if you are enough. Society makes black women feel as if her skin is not beautiful, as if God did not take his time creating her melanin and the course of her hair. They label us as loud, aggressive and incompetent. On the other hand, you have people that look just like you, who fight the same battle as you against the world, and they make you feel as if you are not worthy either. Therefore, I’m left with the question “What is my purpose?”
African Americans have always been oppressed and wrongfully mistreated by others of the world, but today, the mistreatment is viewed by everyone. With the help of social media, the people of my generation are able to freely
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Oftentimes, I wonder if I have missed out not attending a Historically Black College (HBCU). Most of my friends attend a HBCU and they scold me for not joining them. Am I being deprived of getting in touch with my culture? I do not want to remain confined. I want the opportunity to dig further into my roots. I want the power to be able to talk about other greats besides Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Harriett Tubman, although I am humbly appreciative of them. I want to be able to discuss controversial topics that affect the African American community in a classroom. Last year I had the pleasure of taking the Black Sexuality and Health course. This course was a great platform to discuss my opinions on the controversial topics and also hear how my peers felt as well. Also, my horizon is broader because of this course. I was able to view things in a different light. Those topics included, but not limited to: new racism, colorblindness, intersectionality, black gender ideology, and so much more. The class gave me a greater outlook on life as an African American and I knew I could not limit myself to just that one course. Furthermore, this is why I am in the African American Feminism course. There is a countless number of people of color, women of color in particular, whom we have to thank for being that powerful voice I desire to posses. Black women have done an incredible job cultivating our world for the better, but oftentimes, their contributions get marginalized, even while standing alongside their better-known counterparts, which are men. I am aware of the women that are taught in school, but I realize that there are others that I should know

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