The Friar Is To Blame In Shakespeare's Romeo And Juliet

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Let me tell you something about love, it is very difficult to maintain but it can be worth it. This is not the case for Romeo and Juliet. In the Shakespearian play you learn that life isn’t a box of chocolates but is in fact is more like a sack of rattle snakes. I think he is to blame for this tragedy, of course I mean the friar. The friar should get the blame because he didn’t get to Romeo in time to prevent his suicide, misinformed Juliet of her situation, and secretly married Romeo and Juliet. For instance when the friar sent the boy to tell Romeo of his plan, he should have gone himself and saved the day, but no you never send someone to do something that important. “These violet delights have violet ends and in their triumph die, like …show more content…
“Oh, she knew well thy love did read by rote, that could not spell. But come, young waverer, come, go with me, in one respect I’ll thy assistant be, for this alliance may so happy prove to turn your households' rancor to pure love” (Act 2 scene 3 line 90). When he gave them privacy it was only so they could be sure they wanted to be together forever, and when Romeo was banned after the wedding Juliet was heartbroken. But Romeo never left until it was too late, sure it wasn’t the best choice to return but it wasn’t his fault Tybalt died. There really should have been more brain power involved with murder back then. “Hence from Verona art thou banishèd. Be patient, for the world is broad and wide” (Act 3 scene 3 line 15). Concluding the friar was too irresponsible to give Romeo and Juliet a life. When things went wrong with his plan he did try to save the day but was too late. And after everything went wrong what did he do, nothing he did nothing but tell the parents the story and had no repercussions. If I were the parents I would want my kids to tell me if they wanted to be together. Or at least let me know something’s up, no one wants to have their kids die before

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