In the novel, A Widow for One Year, Irving’s character Ruth has overcame the absentee of her mother while growing up, just as Irving had to do with his father. However, many emotions were built up over the course of their childhoods; abandonment and lack of love, once their parents reentered their lives they then felt as if they were “reclaimed.” Once Ruth meets her mother after a course of 20 years, she lets her emotions take over, “Then she stopped trying- she let the tears come” ( Irving 537). John Irving uses realistic events that individuals go through, he broadens human vulnerability and how an individual acts while struggling with difficult situations. The absentee of Irving’s father has greatly affected him. He broadens the importance of forgiveness and recollection throughout his novels so that one will not potentially miss out on opportunities if they do not take the risk of forgiving someone that has had an impact of their life. Not only do individuals break down in emotions, but are also able to endure and overcome situations that are thrown at them. John Irving displays this through his characters, (NAME OF CHARACTER) concludes, “Human beings are remarkable - at what we can learn to live with. If we couldn't get strong from what we lose, and what we miss, and what we want and can't have, then we couldn't ever get strong enough, could we? What else …show more content…
The use of foreshadowing Irving uses in his books relate to what he experiences in his life and the outcome with the characters are very similar to his own. Eddie symbolises Irving’s sexual desires that he once had when he was younger, he also symbolizes forthcoming events, it is seen when, “The boy’s gloomy foreknowledge that the summer will end- and with it his love affair with a woman who means everything to him” (Irving, “A Widow for One Year” PAGE#). Eddie’s character portrays Irving’s life as a young boy and what he has turned into, like Eddie, Irving had many obstacles in life and he is amazed that he grew up because of what he had to go through. By foreshadowing the end of the summer allows the reader to be aware of the course of the book and the character growth that will soon begin to develop. Irony is a key element that is used through Irving's books, they illustrate the humor that can be found in serious situations that may be difficult to overcome. You take every opportunity given you in this world, even if you have too many opportunities. One day, the opportunities stop, you know” (Irving “Hotel New Hampshire” 30). To be humble is a lesson that Irving uses throughout his book. Being humble takes individuals farther in life, and Irving emphasizes his humbleness through these characters. Foreshadowing here creates