This poem is very arguable about its meaning. Some people think that it is about a young boy dancing with his father, while others believe that the father is beating his son. I agree with the statement that the father is abusive; however I understand the theory of the dance too. I think that it is not clear that the father is abusive because of the perspective the poem is written in. Children who are raised in a house with alcoholic parents do not realize that anything is wrong. The boy loves his father, so he is blind to the abuse. His innocent mind does not realize what is really happening. The boy, however, notices his mother is unhappy. He says, “[m]y mother’s countenance/ Could not unfrown itself” (6-7). The boy thinks his mother is upset because “the pans/ Slid from the kitchen shelf” (4-5) when she is actually mad because of the father’s actions. She does not want him to be drunk and hurt her son. After realizing the childhood innocence theme of this poem, I changed my views on this
This poem is very arguable about its meaning. Some people think that it is about a young boy dancing with his father, while others believe that the father is beating his son. I agree with the statement that the father is abusive; however I understand the theory of the dance too. I think that it is not clear that the father is abusive because of the perspective the poem is written in. Children who are raised in a house with alcoholic parents do not realize that anything is wrong. The boy loves his father, so he is blind to the abuse. His innocent mind does not realize what is really happening. The boy, however, notices his mother is unhappy. He says, “[m]y mother’s countenance/ Could not unfrown itself” (6-7). The boy thinks his mother is upset because “the pans/ Slid from the kitchen shelf” (4-5) when she is actually mad because of the father’s actions. She does not want him to be drunk and hurt her son. After realizing the childhood innocence theme of this poem, I changed my views on this