Continuing with this expulsion, Galloway notes that “midway into the polka, [she would] become aware that the breath in [her] ear wasn’t the random happy panting of sexual frenzy but the cadence breath of persistent speech” (130). Her partners’ attempts to communicate with her are often done in vain. This exact instance shines a blinding light on why the inclusion of such scenes are necessary; that is, her experiences simply differ wildly from the hearing, queer public, as well as from experiences of deaf folk who don’t identify as queer. Galloway is essentially being tossed into two extremes, not knowing how to navigate sexual encounters with other women while simultaneously being unable to understand her partner’s gesticulations “with the lights on dim,” which she clarifies as not being “the ideal environment for lip reading” (130). However, it is important to note that Galloway’s struggles do not merely end with her inability to communicate during sexual encounters. Her intersectional identity puts a strain on her romantic endeavors as well, particularly demonstrated by her encounters with her current partner, Donna
Continuing with this expulsion, Galloway notes that “midway into the polka, [she would] become aware that the breath in [her] ear wasn’t the random happy panting of sexual frenzy but the cadence breath of persistent speech” (130). Her partners’ attempts to communicate with her are often done in vain. This exact instance shines a blinding light on why the inclusion of such scenes are necessary; that is, her experiences simply differ wildly from the hearing, queer public, as well as from experiences of deaf folk who don’t identify as queer. Galloway is essentially being tossed into two extremes, not knowing how to navigate sexual encounters with other women while simultaneously being unable to understand her partner’s gesticulations “with the lights on dim,” which she clarifies as not being “the ideal environment for lip reading” (130). However, it is important to note that Galloway’s struggles do not merely end with her inability to communicate during sexual encounters. Her intersectional identity puts a strain on her romantic endeavors as well, particularly demonstrated by her encounters with her current partner, Donna