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3 essential components of love sternbergs theory |
robert sternberg |
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passion |
Physiological arousal, longing to be together the desire to be together and the psychiological excitement you feel with love |
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intimacy |
Close bond, sharing, support have a confedential connection with smo, sharing confedential info and receucing emotional support |
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decision/commitment |
Prepared to define as love, long-term commitment the decision to say you love smo , and commitment to each other and to keep this love. |
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two main types of love |
passionate love - an intense desire to unite with another person(ex. with your partner) companionate love-affection and tenderness we feel for people who are important in our life( oarents for ex) |
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goals of romantic relationships. |
-getting sexual gratification - forming a family bond - receiving goods and social status |
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hormones that affect sex desire |
testosterone and oestrogen |
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socio-sexual orientation by jeffrey simpson and steve gangestad. |
difference between individuals in the preference for unrestricted sex or restricted sex |
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unrestricted sex |
sex without feeling love for that person |
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restricted sex |
sex during long - term relationship |
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two-factor theory |
berscheid and walster love (like all the other feelings) consists of a psychological arousal ( heartbeating, ..) and meaning or label you give to it( love, fear, arousal..) The theory proposes that we can mistake the cause of our arousal and interpret experienced fear for ‘love’ bridge experiment by duron men report more attraction to attractive women is different arousing situations:–Expectingelectricalshocks–Beingon an unstable hanging bridge–After physical exertion |
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need to belong |
baumeister and leary have studied that all humand feel the need to belong. humans desire to build a strong and stable relationship. |
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different types of attachment style |
secure attachment style - ex. child to their mothers anxious ambivalent attachment style when you arent comfortable being clodse to others and to attach to others avoidant attachment style damien https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uSAPfiSw_Ic&spfreload=5 |
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erotomania disorder |
you are convinced smo loves you, even though the evidence shows that this isn't the case |
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polygamy polyandry polygyny |
polygamy- marriage between one man and multiple women or one woman and multiple men polyandry- one woman multiple men polygyny-one man and multiple women |
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equity rule |
the incomes and expenses of one person need to match the incomes and expenses of the other |
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need-based rule |
you give your partner what she/he needs withought keeping track or wanting smth back |
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androgynous |
when a man has manly characteristics and womanly characteristics |
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sternbergs triangular theory of love |
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author of triangular theory of love |
sternberg |
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Why do we love others and commit in relationships goals: |
-To obtain sexual satisfaction -To form a family bond -To gain resources and status - the goals from previous chapter! |
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What makes attractive? |
youth , health repeated exposure The more often you see something, the more attractive you think it is similarity You like each other AND You agree with each other reciprocity I like you, you like me, ok ?”“I don’t like you”, “I don’t like you either” scarcity the ‘hard-to-get effect’ misattribution Two-factor theory. General physiological arousal The plus A lable for that arousal. Dutton & Aron bridge experiment |
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Arousal-facilitation theory? |
According this theory:It is not neccecary to presume that people make mistakes about the cause of their arousal.Arousal is simply an explosion of energy that adds oil to whatever fire is burning When you run after drinking coffee, you run faster •When you normally approach an attractive person, you will do this more enthusiastically when you are aroused ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uSAPfiSw_Ic&spfreload=5 |
