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What is Communication?
Communication is the creation and transmission of messages that convey meaning and affect behavior among people.
Three models of Communication
1 Linear Model (one way message communicated through channels with noise to a sender and a receiver.)
2 Interactive Model (linear + field of experience and feedback)
3 Transactional Model (Field of experience, messages go through noise back and forth without a sender and receiver or feedback)
Principles of interpersonal Communication
1. One cannot NOT communicate
2. communication has a content and a relationship aspect.
**meta-communication = communication about communication
3. communication has an ethical aspect
Buber's I-it vs. I-thou
I thou: a way of relating that deepens bonds and affirms individual uniqueness
I-it: viewing the other as an object, leading to impersonal communication
Culture
set of values and beliefs, norms and customs, rules and codes, that socially define groups of people, binding them to one another and giving them a sense of commonality.
Components of culture
1) values - standards for what is desirable, good and beautiful
2) norms - rules and expectations that guide behavior
3) language
Cultural Difference: 5 dimensions
1) individualism vs collectivism
2) uncertainty avoidance (high vs low)
3) communication context (high vs low)
4) Power distance (high vs low)
5) masculinity vs. femininity
Examples of Nonverbal Taboos
blinking eyes (impolite taiwan)
gesturing w/thumb up (rude in australia)
pointing w/index finger (impolite in China and Middle East)
bowing less than host (implies superiority in japan)
eating or greeting w/left hand (impolite in many arab culture & indonesia)
pointing at someone with index & 3rd finger (wishing evil in african countries)
Sex:
refers to innate, biological characteristics - genitalia, chromosomes and hormones
Gender:
is a psychologically and culturally constructed term which varies from culture to culture and over time. It is learned
Gender roles
(masculine and feminine) acquired through
parenting, games, toys and media
How does Gender influence communication
1) Verbal communication
expressive vs. instrumental talk
linguistic styles (men interrupt, gives directions, women ask questions use disclaimers)
2) Nonverbal Communication
touch and body movement
emotional communication
affectionate behavior
Deborah Tannen's Men and Women in Conversation
Rapport talk vs report talk
Public vs private speaking
Characteristics of Language:
1) Language is symbolic (different characters for the same thing in diff languages)
2) Language is rule-based (constitutive rules and regulative rules)
3) Language is flexible: it differs across group and cultures and evolves over time
4) Language is emotive:
5) Language shapes thought (illustrates existing cultural values and reinforces them
Sapir-Whorf Hypothesis:
1) Language defines our thinking
2) we cannot conceive of that for which we lack a vocabulary
3) differences in grammar and vocabulary affect the way speakers perceive the word
Expressive Language Paradigm
Patients to wrote about deep emotional experiences became healthier
Why does expressive writing work?
1) Catharsis
2) Behavior change
3) cognitive restructuring
"I" language:
signifies taking ownership of feelings, opinions or beliefs (important when expressing criticism or negativity)
"You" Language
places focus of attention and blame on others
"We" language:
Signifies closeness and inclusiveness (important when discussion positive emotions and discussing everyday topics)
Conversations
1) interactive
2) local management
3) universal
4) often scripted
nonverbal skill correlates with
a) higher self-esteem and life satisfaction
b) being perceived as attractive and populate
c) greater persuasiveness
d) higher relationship satisfaction
nonverbal communication:
the intention or unintentional transmission of meaning through non-spoken physical and behavior cues

(uses multiple channels, has fewer rules, can be ambiguous, is influenced by culture)
Nonverbal communication codes
1) kinesics
facial expression
eye contact
gestures
- -- EMBLEMS
- -- Illustrators
- -- regulators
- -- adaptors
Posture (immediacy, power)
-straightness of back
-body lean (forward, back, vertical)

-straightness of shoulders (firm or slumped)
-head position (tiled or straight up)
Nonverbal communication codes
2) Personal Space (proxemics)
3) Communication through touch - Haptics
surrogate monkey mother with felt and other with milk
4) communication through voice - vocalics
loudness, pitch, speech rate
5) communication through time - chronemics
monochronic
polychronic
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6) communication through objects and the environment
samuel gosling's office & bedroom studies
identity claims
behavioral residue
thoughts/feeling regulators (create certain environments to feel certain ways, like do people create relaxing spaces or types of spaces)
7) communication through physical appearance
physical attractiveness
- halo effect
- is biological
Facial attractiveness
-symmetry
-Straightness of profile
-proportion
-averageness
-trustworthiness
- baby facedness
Self Concept:
-likes/dislikes
-talents
-physical attributes
-social roles
-emotional states
Personality - The "big five" personality traits
extroverted, introverted

agreeable, antagonistic

Open, not open

Neurotic, Stable

Conscientious, Undirected
Social roots of the self:
Reflected appraisals / the looking-glass self
social comparison
- upwards comparison, downwards comparison
self-fulfilling prophecies
Attachment styles
- attachment anxiety (fear of rejection)
- attachment avoidance (desire for intimacy)