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33 Cards in this Set
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Word Barriers:
Bypassing |
Confusion caused by the same word having multiple meanings
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Word Barriers: Lack of percision
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Uncertain meaning in words
- Using words out of context - inapproapriate grammar - word order is wrong |
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Word Barriers: Allness
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Using language to make unqualified
- Untrue generalization |
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Word Barriers: Static Evaluation
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Using words or pahses from other generations
-groovy - bling bling |
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Word Barriers: Biased Language
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Ethnic
Racial Sexist |
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(8) Process, Conflict Management Skills: Source
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Prior Conditions (Baggage)
- Come into a relationship with past experience - Goals, needs, personality |
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(8) Process, Conflict Management Skills:Beginning
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Frustration Awareness
- At least 1 person starts to get frustrated - Small problem begins to get bigger |
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(8) Process, Conflict Management Skills:Active Conflict
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Middle Conflict
- Address to the other person that there is a problem |
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(8) Process, Conflict Management Skills: Resolution
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End
- Manage Conflict ? - Not all get resolved |
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(8) Process, Conflict Management Skills:Aftermath
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- Dealing with hurt feelings
- Check to see if conflict has been resolved or not |
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(8) 3 Types of Conflict
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1. Pseudo Conflict
2. Simple Conflict 3. Ego Conflict |
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(8) 5 Process, Conflict Management Skills:
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1. Source
2. Beginning 3. Active Conflict 4. Resolution 5. Aftermath |
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(8) 3 Types of Conflict: Pseudo
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- Misunderstand
- Miscommunication |
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(8) 3 Types of Conflict: Simple
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Take different sides to the issue
- Disagreement about something |
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(8) 3 Types of Conflict: Ego
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FIND
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(8) 5 Myths of Conflict
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1. Conflict is always a sign of a poor interpersonal relationship
2. Conflict can always be avoided 3. Conflict always occurs because of misunderstanding 4. Conflict can always be resolved 5. Conflict is always bad |
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(9) 7 Interpersonal Attraction
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1. Physical
2. Proximity 4. Similarities 7. Reciprocating of liking |
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(9) 7 Interpersonal Attraction: Physical
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People have a tendency to seek out others that are similar
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(9) 7 Interpersonal Attraction: Proximity
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- People who are close
- Increased ability to talk |
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(9) 7 Interpersonal Attraction: Similarities
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- Upbringing
- Background, family makeup - Values - Attitude |
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(9) 7 Interpersonal Attraction: Reciprocating of liking
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- We like people who like us
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(9) Relationships of circumstance
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Family Neighbors Colleagues
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(9) Relationships of choice
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a. People you are interested in
b.People you identify with i.Boyfriend/girlfriend ii.Friends |
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(10) 5 STAGES OF RELATIOnSHIP ESCULATION
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1. Pre interaction awareness stage
2. Initiation stage 3. Exploration stage 4. Intensification stage 5. Intimacy |
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(10) Stages of Relationship Escalation: Pre interaction awareness stage
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a. See someone of interest
b. Talk of other about the person c. Passive strategy- Increase in talking about the person |
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(10) Stages of Relationship Escalation: Initiation stage
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- Some type of conversation
- Safe topics - Public Self |
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(10) Stages of Relationship Escalation: Exploration stage
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- Share information
- Little physical contact - Limited time together - Increase level of conversation - Low level of self disclosure |
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(10) Stages of Relationship Escalation: Intensification stage
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- Depend on other person
- More rising self disclosure - Spend more time together - Increase physical contact - Increase variety of activities |
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(10) Stages of Relationship Escalation: Intimacy
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- Talk about anything/everything
- Great deal of physical contact - Relationship talk |
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(10) Relationship De-escalation: Turmoil phase
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- Active Conflict
– find fault with the person - Communication is intense (negative) - Communication is difficult |
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(10) Relationship De-escalation: Stagnation Phase
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- Stop doing stuff together
- The relationship goes no where - Spend less time together - Decrease in physical contact |
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(10) Relationship De-escalation: Individualization
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- Decrease interaction
- Start to do more individual activities - Language of relationship changes |
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(10) Relationship De-escalation: Separation Phase
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-Talk about separation
- Friends and Family |
