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30 Cards in this Set
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Types of love
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1. love of beauty-
2. playful love 3. companionate love 4. obsessive love 5 realistic love 6. altruistic love |
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love of beauty
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passionate and intense, attraction to physical beauty, eager for self-disclosure and sexual intimacy
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playful love
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like playing the game more then being in it, self-sufficient, undemanding, independent
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companionate love
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based in friendship and companionship, stable and predictable, not distressed by absences
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obsessive love
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passion of love of beauty with manipulation of playful love, lack of enthusiasm by one partner will cause pain, anxiety, or jealously, love is like a drug, limerance or controlled love/fake, causes pain if things aren’t always going on
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realistic love
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playful love and companionate love, compatibility is the basis, this have to always work out
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altruistic love
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most committed, never doing anything to jeopardize relationship, never jealous, everyone like this at some point
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Love triangle
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need commitment, intimacy, and passion
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Nonlove
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nothing
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Liking
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intimacy
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Infatuation
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passion, high arousal
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Empty love
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commitment, long-term or beginning
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Romantic love
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intimacy, passion, physical attraction, sexual desire
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Fatuous love
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commitment, passion, love at first sight
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Companionate love
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commitment, intimacy, long term friendship, end of marriage, no physical attraction
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Consummate love
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commitment, intimacy, passion
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Affection
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liking based on mutual interacting
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Liking
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attraction resulting from positive reinforcement received from another, affection and respect
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Respect
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liking based on admiration for who they are as a person
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Loving
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emotional arousal either positive or negative, having some rational for labeling love, attachment, caring, intimacy
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Attachment
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powerful desire in others presence
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Caring
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love as giving rather than needing
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Intimacy
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attachment and caring
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Berscheid and Walster theory
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passionate love if they are emotionally agitated and attribute it to passionate love
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Friendship love
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enjoyment, acceptance, trust, respect, mutual assistance, confiding, understanding, spontaneity,
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Love
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friendship love plus, fascination, exclusiveness, sex, giving, advocate
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Close/Intimate relationships Characteristics
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1.spend time
2.mutually influence 3.positive feelings from relationship 4.know and understand each other 5.want the relationship to continue |
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Foundations of Intimacy
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1.personality and early experienc
2.situational and development factorses 3.cultural guidelines 4.emotional arousal/labeling 5.self-fulfillment 6.self-surrender 7.commitment to a joint identity |
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Adult attachment styles
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1.secure- love never fades
2.avoidant- don’t believe in love 3.anxious/ambivalent- easy to fall in love but go crazy over it |
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Maintenance
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the way partners deal with critical and repeated acts of discourse that constitute their relationship
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