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15 Cards in this Set
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when does this stage start? and what changes? |
18-25 yrs "emerging adulthood" (economic independence) greater responsibility for consequences of own action than adol.; deciding on own beliefs; more "adult" relationship with parents |
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peak |
hit "peak" then start to slowdown athletic peak: strength/speed peak.. then become stronger mental skills than younger players health peak: fewer illness, shorter durations |
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cognitive development |
fading of "black & white" Pragmatics: doing what works best, less in "ideal" William Perry: from "dualistic thinking" to "multiple thinking" |
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*post formal thought |
ongoing search for truth via. reflective thinking, appreciating circumstances |
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Erikson |
intimacy vs. isolation |
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* sternberg's triangle of love |
passion: strong chemistry, highly attracted to partner intimacy: strong emotional bond, knowledge of partner commitment: committed to relationship |
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* four love patterns |
infatuation: little intimacy, knowledge & even less commitment (like a fling or high school crush) companionate: a relationship marked by intimacy & commitment, lacking passion (couple that's been married several years) fatuous: passion & commitment are present, no intimacy (one person worships from a distance- stalker like) consummate: (ideal relationship) strongest & fullest form of love. consists of passion, intimacy & commitment |
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gottmans research on good marriage |
love maps/knowledge++ express fondness/admiration turn toward, not away from partner let yourself be influenced solve what is solvable longer healthier lives. related to less stress |
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divorce |
peak time: 5-10 from marriage higher rates of loneliness, low self-esteem, hard to trust future partner, psychological disorders, immune disorders.. economic downturn |
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*enhancers |
competent in multiple areas of life, remarkable ability to bounce back from stressful circumstances. create meaning out of problems
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*good enoughs |
some strength, some weakness. good enough women often marry someone like previous marriage- no improvement |
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*seekers |
motivated to find new mates asap |
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*libertines |
spend more time in singles bars & have more casual sex during 1st year post divorce after 1st year want stable relationship |
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*competent loners |
well adjusted, self suffice to & socially skilled successful career, active social life & wide range of interests little interest in sharing their life with anyone else (unlike enhancers) |
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*defeated |
problems before divorce that increased after breakup added stress of failed marriage is more then they can handle |
