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Denial
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subconscious defense mechanism when first confronted with the reality of pets death.
Appears to not comprehend, asks repetive or semmingly inappropriate questions. Can be frustrating, requires patience. Allow the client time to digest the reality of the situaiton so long as it doesn't interfere with the treatment of the animal. Denial is gradually broken down by the facts and the inevitability of the clinical signs. |
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Bargaining
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with god
with the pet with the veterinary staff |
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anger/guilt
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can be simultanious or subsequent to denial.
Overt hostility or blame can be directed at others or guilt - towards themselves the goal is to preserve the relationship with the client. Recognizing that they are angry at themselves or the situation and not at us. We should try not to argue or become defensive. remain calm and continue to explain the facts of the situation to the clients and reassure that the situation is nobody's "fault" |
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True Grief
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Owners can dwell on their own grief and not on the plight of the animal interfering with decision making.
It is best to continue to draw attention to the animal's condition and acknowledge the client's feelings. Owners can project their own fear of dying on the pet. Man's greatest anxiety comes from the fear of dying not death itself. Explaining that the pet does not have this awareness can be comforting. |
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resolution
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Acceptance of the inevitability of death.
Denial becomes acceptance/anger fades/guilt dissolves Begin to have memories of the pet without pain. comfort and offer reassurance abouth the timing of the euthanasia. Major support is neccessary at this time. Society in general does not understnad grieving over the loss of a pet Clients often just need someone who understands to listen - it's not our job to fix them. Provide reassurance, understanding, perspective, OK to show sadness Offer help. Support groups, counseling, Grief Help Lines. |
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Getting a new pet
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Let them decide when it is time
Pressure to get one too soon is often harmful Mistake of well intentioned people Cant' replace the lost pet Only find another to share their lives with. |
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Express condolences
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cards, notes, flowers, paw prints, donations are all appropriate.
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