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67 Cards in this Set
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Name and explain 4 types of Moms
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*Deadbeat Mom
*Traditional Mom *Career Mom *Single Mom |
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When and in what ways to men and women become different from their parents?
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1860- Industrial Revolution men became different from their fathers way of life; different because men now wanted to move to city and factories.
1960- She changes:she wants to be out of the home..wants to work. |
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At what percent do men feel that their share of domestic division labor is unfair?
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36%
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At what percent do women feel that their share of domestic division labor is unfair?
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60%
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What are the three types of Gender Ideology? Explain & what are the two levels?
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1)Traditional-
2)Egalitarion- 3)Transitional Two Levels= Shallow-contradicted Deep-no contradiction |
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What is Gender Strategy?
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Plan of Action and emotional preparness of pursing it.
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Explain fractures in gender ideology. Differeniate between levels of and fractures in.
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A conflict between gender ideology and other conditions.
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What percent of teens are virgins?
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1/3
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What percent of teens are non-virgins?
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2/3
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Name three main types of virgins?
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Inexperienced Virgins
Adamant Virgins Potential Non Virgins |
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Three main types of Non-virgins?
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*Engaged Non-Virgins
*Liberated Non-Virgins *Confused Non-Virgins |
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How has the percent of non-virgins at marriage changed for 2 age Cohorts and by Gender?
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Men= 20's=16.3% virgins
Men= 50's=21.9% virgins Women=20's=20.1% virgins Women=50's=54.5% virgins |
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Whos the least likely to have affairs? Whats the best predictor of extra marital sex? Attitudes favorable to extra marital sex are favored by?
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Religious people;
Premarital sexual premiscuoius Attitudes favorable: People who live in large cities, unhappily married, highest levels of education |
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Define Dating
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A social appointment
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Define Courting
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To try to gain the favor of, to woo.
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In the COlonial Era what was the purpose of courting? How were bachelors treated?
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Courting was for marriage and bacherlors were harassed.
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What role did love play in the courtship process? parents?
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Love was formed after marriage.Determined who you courted...chaperoned
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Explain Bundling.What percent of Brides were pregnant at their marriage at the colonial era?
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Bundling was when men and women slept in the same bed with a bundling board betweent them so they could get to know each other. mostly on weekends. 30% of brides pregnant at marriage.
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In what era did engagement and marriage customs come into practice?
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1830's-1880's : engagement rings and white dresses
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Explain how seperate spheres impacted the interaction between men and women.
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The rich watched them in parlors.
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What role did romantic love play in the courtship process during the 1830s-1880s?
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Marriage, Fake ill, cancel date to see if spouse cared.
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Explain the two key developments of the 1900-1940s.ROle of technology in the 1950s dating?
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Romantic Love- individuals chose their mate.
Adolescense- Schooling are now male female, less formal interaction |
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what era set the precedent for "traditional" dating? Be familiar with schools and etiquette classes.
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1950s schools taught kids how to date
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What is going steady?
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Wearing the ring and sweater, exclusiveness between the teens 17yrs old.
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Five elements of Romantic Love?
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1) Love at first sight
2) One true love for each person 3) Love conquers all 4)True love is absolutely perfect 5) We choose partner for love not practical reasons |
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How did power and gender in courtship and dating change from the 1800s to the 1950s?
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1880s= more female dominated, determined when, where, who.
1950s= Male dominated, male decided. |
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1st date behavior best described as..
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Men ask, men pay, and decide what to do.
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Whats the typical courting period for people today
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13-26 years
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What percent of US adult population is currently married. Ever married?
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57% of pop is currently married.
90% pop is ever married. |
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Three trends associated with median age at 1st marriage over time for men and women?
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Women typically younger than men
Now people are closer in age |
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In 2003 how many family households were in a married couple structure?
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76%
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What are the 7 variables of 1st marriagers associated with liklihood to break up and more likely to succeed
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*Family Structure
*Race *Age *Premarital Pregnancy *Education *Income *Religion |
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Whats the myth about marital health?
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"we never fight"
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Happy marriages have what kind of dementions?
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Both positive and Negative
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What really matters for lasting marriages?
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For every 5 good moments there should be one bad.
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What are 4 types of happy marriages?
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1) Validating
2)Conflict Habituated 3)Devitalized 4) Passive Congenial |
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WHat are three characteristics all happy marriages share?
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1- deep friendship
2- love 3- Respect |
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What two characteristics are associated with the happiest marriages?
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1- share the second shift
2- sharing marital work ethic |
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Descibe the marriage process
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Start out unhappy--->become more happy or disatisifed.
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What are 3 important behaviors that characterize "lasting couples"?
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1-Repair Attempts
2-Cultivation 3-Affirming History |
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What 2 things do repair attempts entail?
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1- When becoming negative
2- Remind partner that they admire them during conflict |
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What are 4 strategies to improve marriage? Whats the major goal?
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1- Calm down
2- Speak non-defensively 3-Validate partner "i love u" 4- practice practice practice Break cycle of Negativity. |
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Effect of unexpected divorces on married couples?
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1- divorce anxiety - it could happen to anyone!
1- Hypothetical divorce - Marriage is forever 2 Passing the test..look back at old times 3 Use gender ideology as a shield 4 Marital work ethic |
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Number of Cohabitating Couples in 1977 to 1997? Current percent of cohabitating couples?
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1977= 1 million
1997 = 5 millon current = 56% |
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Give for reasons why cohabitation has increased?
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1- Its going to happen anyways
2- Erosion of Norms 3- Available birth control 4- Weaking of religious restraint |
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What percent of children spend some years of their childhood living with a parent and the parents unmarried partner?
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2/5ths
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Who was the first person to obtain a legal divorce in England, when and how did it happen?
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Lord Roose - 1669 in England
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In America, where and when the first divorce granted?
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1630 by the Mass Bay Colony
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Two types of early divorce? What was the percent of divorce in the 1850s?
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1- Absolute Divorce
2- Divorce from bed and board 5% divorce..so one 1 in 20 marriages ended with divorce |
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Marriage used to be a indissoluble union..what does this mean?
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Tell death do we part
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How many marriages ended in divorce in 1880 and 1916?
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1880= 1 in 21 , 4.7%
1916= 1 in 9 ended in divorce 11% |
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Using adultery and cruelty grounds demonstrate the differing standards for divorcing men and women?
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Men- COuld sue for divorce with wife alone
Women- Had to be adultery aggravated with incest, cruelty, or bigamy |
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What and when were the first and last states to legistate "no fault" divorces?
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1st= California- 1969 No fault
Last = South Dakota 1985 |
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How did California alter the legal defitniton of reciprocal rights of marriage?
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They wanted to get rid of one guilty, eliminate hypocrisy,perjury and reduce bitterness to say "its okay to divorce"
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Describe how the new law changed each of the 4 basic elements in trad. divorce laws.
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1 new assumptions on what was appropriate spouse rolls
2 husband and wife both responsible for economic responsibilities 3 Divorce with least possible trama |
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How did the standards for child custody change?
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Men used to be responsible, now women
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Know the 5 ways to estimate the rate of divorce?
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1- Marriage to divorce ratio
2-CRuel divorce rate 3- estimate absolute divorces in a given year 4- Refined divorce rate 5- Average marital risk |
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whats the average length of 1st marriages that end in divorce?
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7 years
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Using adultery and cruelty grounds demonstrate the differing standards for divorcing men and women?
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Men- COuld sue for divorce with wife alone
Women- Had to be adultery aggravated with incest, cruelty, or bigamy |
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What and when were the first and last states to legistate "no fault" divorces?
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1st= California- 1969 No fault
Last = South Dakota 1985 |
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How did California alter the legal defitniton of reciprocal rights of marriage?
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They wanted to get rid of one guilty, eliminate hypocrisy,perjury and reduce bitterness to say "its okay to divorce"
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Describe how the new law changed each of the 4 basic elements in trad. divorce laws.
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1 new assumptions on what was appropriate spouse rolls
2 husband and wife both responsible for economic responsibilities 3 Divorce with least possible trama |
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How did the standards for child custody change?
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Men used to be responsible, now women
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Know the 5 ways to estimate the rate of divorce?
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1- Marriage to divorce ratio
2-CRuel divorce rate 3- estimate absolute divorces in a given year 4- Refined divorce rate 5- Average marital risk |
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whats the average length of 1st marriages that end in divorce?
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7 years
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Working and stay at home mom's attempt to resolve their ambivalence run in the same way, how?
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Reaffirm their commitment for good mothering
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What are the 4 eras of gender inequality in American society?
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1- The Era of seperate spheres
2- Era of Egalitarion Illusions 3-Assimilation 4-Residul Inequites |
