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22 Cards in this Set
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What is attachment and how do you know you have one?
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1. Intense emotional tie between two individuals.
2. Know you have attachment * take one of them away |
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Fatuous Love
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Passion and Commitment
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Infatuation
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Passion alone
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Romantic Love
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Intimacy and Passion
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Liking
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Intimacy alone
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Companionate Love
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intimacy and commitment
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Consummate love
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Intimacy + Passion + Love
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Describe Sternberg's love triangle
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The three areas of Intimacy, Passion and Commitment
There are 7 different types of love from all of these. |
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How is attachment/ connection created between two people?
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4 stages
1. develope an attachment 2. sharing experiences with others 3. Sharing experiences together 4. Helps if some include vulnerability |
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What is Vulnerability?
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Sharing intimate close things that you would not share with everyone.
Making yourself open to judgement. Deep connection to other people |
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Worthiness
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Strong sense of love and belonging.
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Personality Type attachment styles
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1. Secure
2. Avoidant 3. Anxious-ambivalent |
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What is the role of sex for humans?
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Sex has become uncoupled with fertility.
*Permiscuous sex * Human female during ovulation: -More likely to cheat during ovulation -Strippers earn more money -Attracted to more masculine features - Dress seductively |
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Reasons for first date
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Physical Attraction
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Reason for second date
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Men: Kindness
Women: Kindess |
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Reasons for continuing
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Men: Physical Attraction
Women: Social economic status |
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What cues tell us a mate is fertile?
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Secondary sexual characteristics
symmetrical face Healthy hair Skin Teeth |
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What cues tell us a mate is fertile?
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Secondary sexual characteristics
Body Hair Pitch of voice *waist hip ration of .07 (w) .09 (m) |
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Describe sternberg's triangular theory of relationship success
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A relationship is more likely to be successful when the interests of the two people match
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Which personality style pairings make a successful relationship?
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Secure - Secure
*No relationships are avoid - avoid or anx -anx. |
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What components make up a successful relationship?
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*Supportive Communication
*Companionship: shared mutual interest *Sexual Expression |
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Gottman communication styles that will help or hinder a relationship.
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Healthy relationship:
1. Leveling and Editing (the communication) 2. Validating (I see your point but) 3. Volatile Dialogue Unhealthy 1. Stonewalling (not responsive, denial) 2. Criticisim (aim is to hurt) 3. Defensiveness (Not responsible) 4. Belligerence (provoking) |
