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Grief

Grief has no closure, is a deep intense feeling of sorrow caused by the loss of love. Comes from the word Gravis which means heavy. Widow comes from the sanskrit meaning a feeling of emptiness. Not always expressed.

Bereavement

Comes from the old english meaning to deprive, to rob. gender and cultural differences in expression. Generally subsides with time. Expression of internal feelings of grief.

Mourning

from the old english meaning to remember, to think of. Usually expressed with social, cultural, and religious traditions. Usually a time limit as well. Society's opportunity to express sympathy.

Causes of Grief

Love (greater the love greater the pain), Dependency (requirement of need), Expectation (future unrealized).


Two Basic Components for Grief from Loss

Value and deprivation

Healthy expressions of grief

Exercise, Explosive(verbal expression), Emotive (crying).

Unhealthy Expressions of Grief

Behavior(acting out), Psychosomatic Distress(illness), Cognitive delusion or unrealistic thinking.

Pathos

from the greek meaning feeling.

Bathos

false pathos

Sympathy

Compassion without experience

Empathy

Compassion with experience.

Apathy

indifference

Telepathy

preternatural transference of thoughts/emotions

Symbols of Grief and meaning

Rainbow (Rain(tears) and Sunshine (memories).


Butterfly (death is a metamorphosis and we are all living caterpillars waiting to be butterflies).


Anticipatory Grief

A future grief experienced in installments in the present

Ambivalent Grief

grief with mixed feelings, often contradictory.

Latent Grief

Dormant grief

Shadow Grief

A grief that follows you everywhere, no closure. Episodic, with intense recurrences of pain long after death.

Anomic Grief

First Grief

Disenfranchised Grief

grief unacknowledged by society or one's peers.

Unresolved Grief

Grief whose intensity does not change over time.

Candidacy for Unresolved Grief

Relational Factors (dependency, ambivalence)


Circumstantial Factors (Type of Death)


Historical Factors (unresolved, past depression)


Personality Factors (poor coping skills, ignorance of grieving process)


Social Factors (negative type of death, no social network)



Clues for Unresolved Grief

Nonfunctional or uncharacteristic behavior


Cognitive dissonance


Severe Psychosomatic distress


Severe identification/substitution/restitution


Drug therapy


Masochistic Guilt Manifestations


Phobic Lifestyle


Severe destructive or depressive modes of behavior


Unable to speak of the deceased without emotional devastation



Catharsis

Release, purgation

Cognitive Dissonance

Cognitive denial of something. Here it is used as a inability to comprehend death.

Idealization

giving something, here the deceased, a flawless quality. Given an ideal status as the best that ever was.

Principle of Heightened Accessibility

Grievers receive sympathy from four to six weeks and then are expected to have resolved their issues.

Study by Erich Lindemann

Symptomatology and the Management of Acute Grief

Three tasks of grieving by Erich Lindemann

Emancipation (Freedom from bondage to the deceased) Let it go!


Readjustment to the environment where the deceased lived.


Re-intergration of new people and new activities in one's life.

Hollistic Impacts of Grief

Physical-effects immune system, previous organic problems, sleep deficiency


Mental-causes confusion, inability to focus on role issues, obsession with deceased.


Emotional-causes intense emotions which need a long time to heal. Must expose, express, exhaust.


Social-disengagement from social life.


Spiritual-questioning god, anger toward god.

How does sorrow weaken the body

decreases lymphocyte activity.

STUG

Sudden Temporary Upsurges of Grief

Convergent thinking and sleep deficiency

Routine thinking, manual thinking, impacted after two days of no sleep

Divergent Thinking and Sleep

Creative or spontaneous thinking. Impacted after one day no sleep

Levels of losses name 5

Loss of loved one


Loss of Security


Loss of huge chunk of self


Loss of identity


Loss of Future


Loss of trust


loss of known family structure

Grief Syndrome

A DSM acknowledged disorder, grief unresolved to the point of legal disability.

PASD

Post Abortive Stress Disorder

Chronic Sorrow

never ending sorrow with no predictable end or true resolution. Such as a parent for a disabled child, or family members of someone with chronic illness such as alzheimer's or MS.

Examples of Disenfranchised Grief

Miscarriage, abortion, death of a friend or extramarital lover. Loss of a pet. Alzheimer's patient.

Benefits of Anticipatory Grief

Reconciliation possible


Unfinished business can be finished


The dying can help the griever prepare for life without them


Prepare for new roles.


Easier to absorb


Die with family

Grief of persons with developmental disablities

Overprotected and excluded


Do best with concrete learning


Limited Communication


Creative ways to respond to a developmentally delayed person's grief

Offer a memorial at a group home


Use photo/video to remind and console


Tell them the truth about death


Religion


Advocate for their involvement in grief rituals.