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30 Cards in this Set
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A motivation to bond with others in relationships that provide ongoing, positive interactions
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need to belong
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Geographical nearness; powerfully predicts liking
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proximity
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The tendency for novel stimuli to be liked more or rated more positively after the rater has been repeatedly exposed to them.
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Mere-exposure effect
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The tendency for men and women to choose as partners those are a "good match" in attractiveness and other traits.
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Matching phenomenon
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The presumtion that physically attricve people possess other socially desirable traits as well: what is beautiful is good.
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Physical-attractiveness stereotype
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The popularity supposed tendency, in a relationship between two people, for each to complete what is missing in the other.
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complementarity
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The use of strategies, such as flattery, by which people seek to gain another's favor.
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ingratiation.
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The theory that we like those whose behavior is rewarding to us or whom we associate with rewarding events.
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Reward theory of attraction
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arousal x its label = emotion
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two-factor theory of emotion
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a state of intense longing for union with another. absorbed in each other, feel ecstatic at attaining their partners love, and are disconsolate in losing it.
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passionate love
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the affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined.
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companionate love
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attachments rooted in trust and marked by intimacy
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secure attachment
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attachments marked by a sense of one's own unworthiness and anxiety, ambivalence, and possessiveness.
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preoccupied attachment
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an avoidant relationship style marked by distrust of others.
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dismissive attachment
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an avoidant relationship style marked by fear of rejection
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fearful attachment
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A condition in which the outcomes people receive from a relationship are proportional to what they contribute to it.
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equity (doesn't always have to be equal)
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revealing intimate aspects of oneself to others.
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self-disclosure
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the tendency for one person's intimacy of self-disclosure to match that of a conversational partner.
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disclosure reciprocity
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social ostracism evokes a brain response similar to that triggered by ________ ____.
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physical pain
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3 Aspects of Proximity
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1. interaction
2. anticipation of interaction 3. mere exposure |
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Students rated stimuli more ________ after being shown them repeatedly
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positively
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Women tend to find ________ more attractive than bodies, versus men
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brains
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We tend to like people who are more _____ ___.
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like us (likeness begets liking)
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Sternberg's Conception of Kinds of Loving has combinations of _____ basic components of love
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three
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Romantic love = intimacy + _________
Fatuous love = passion + _________ Companionate love = __________ + commitment |
passion; commitment; intimacy
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Passion = _________
Decision/commitment = ___________ Intimacy = ___________ |
infatuation; empty love; liking
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researchers report that ________ eye contact, nodding and smiling are indicators of passionate love.
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sustained
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What factors enable close relationships?
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attachment, equity, self-disclosure
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People are more likely to stay married if:
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married after age 20, both grew up in stable, 2 parent homes, dates for a long time before marraige, are well and similarly educated, enjoy a stable income from a good job, live in a small town or on a farm, didn't cohabit or become pregnant before marriage, are religiously committed, are of similar age, faith, and education
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People who rate their marriages the highest are generally the _________
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happiest
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