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Emotional Intelligence

THE ABILITY TO MOTIVATE ONESELF AND PERSIST IN THE FACE OF FRUSTRATIONS, TO CONTROL IMPULSE AND DELAY GRATIFICATION, TO REGULATE ONE’S MOODS AND KEEP DISTRESS FROM SWAMPING THE ABLITY TO THINK, TO EMPHATIZE AND TO HOPE

Amygdala

EMOTIONAL SENTINEL, TAKES CONTROL OF OUR ACTIONS

Neocortex

THINKING BRAIN

Frontal lobes

Emotions

Peter Salovey

Five domains

Five domains

KNOWING ONE’S EMOTIONS OR SELF-AWARENESS


MANAGING EMOTIONS


MOTIVATING ONESELF


RECOGNIZING EMOTIONS IN OTHERS


HANDLING RELATIONSHIPS

Emotional Intelligence affects our

PHYSICAL AND MENTAL HEALTH


WORK PERFORMANCE


RELATIONSHIPS

Relationships

Personal and social

Personal relationship

A TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS CLOSELY ASSOCIATED WITH A PERSON – santos, 2017

How it is formed (relationships)

Attachment

secure attachment

the primary caregiver is most of the time present and available.

Avoidant attachment

when the primary caregiver is cold and detached, and even unresponsive.

Anxious-ambivalent attachment

when the primary caregiver is not consistent

Three stages of falling in love.

Lust


Attraction


Attachment

Lust

Driven by sex hormones, testosterones and estrogen

Attraction

described as “lovestuck” phase, which involves neurotransmitters in the brain.

Attachment

when the couple decides to continue the relationship

Physical attractiveness

Some research suggests that physical beauty is one of the main factors that influence people’s choices for selecting people they want to know better, although other factors may become more important in the later stages of relationships.

Propinquity

The finding that the more we see and interact with people, the more likely they are to become our friends

Similarity

People tend to like being around others who are similar to them in some way



People who are similar validate our own characteristics and beliefs

Reciprocity

Tendency of people to like other people who like them in return


Just knowing that someone likes us fuels our attraction to the person.

Transference

Happens when we meet someone who reminds us of someone we liked

Personality characteristics

Accdg to research, emphatic and optimistic persons are usually found to be attractive

Liking and attraction

1. Physical attractiveness


2. Propinquity


3. Similarity


4. reciprocity


5. transference


6. personality traits

STERNBERG’S TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE

Non love

Marked by absence of all the three components

Liking

A friendship in which only intimacy is present

Infatuation

A “love at first sight” kind of love in which only passion is present

Empty love

Marked by commitment to maintain a relationship but intimacy and passion is non-existent

Fatuous love

Whirlwind romances and “quickie marriages”, no intimacy

Romantic love

Marked by passion and intimacy but lacks or has no commitment

Companionate love

Combines intimacy with commitment but lacks or has no passion (close friendship, partnership)

Consummate love

COMPLETE measure of love