Notecards On Dating From Nandor's Bible Class

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Know Scripture:

2 Corinthians 6:14

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close relationships with only believers

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1 Corinthians 6:12-20

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Joining together, becoming one flesh.

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Genesis 2-3

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the lack of leadership from the man, the man will be cursed to work without fruit and want to work, the woman’s desire will be for her husband, woman want relationships, to be a helper.

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Ephesians 5:22-33

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order of authority, husbands ought to love wives as Christ loved the church. Wives should submit to husbands as church submits to Christ.

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1 Thessalonians 4

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o God’s passion is your spiritual growth (v 1-2)
 “if you love Me, then keep My commandments.”

o God’s will is your sexual purity (v 3)
 Sexual sin is more dire than the sex act. Matthew 5:27-28
 God is not out to get you by saying no to sex before marriage. Psalm 84:11

o God’s provision is your self-control (v 4-5)

o God’s revenge is your terrifying motivation
 I Corinthians 6:12-20, sexual sin is uniquely offensive to God.

o God’s purpose is absolute holiness (v 7)
 “Be holy, for I am holy”
 Holiness is the best possible life.

o God’s Spirit is your ultimate standard (v 8)

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Matthew 19

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o divorce is allowed by God because of our own hardness of heart
o This was not God’s plan
o Verse 9, remarriage
o Marriage instituted by God
o God’s way = No divorce
o Man’s way = divorce
o God’s way = forgiveness
o Man’s way = hardness of heart
o God’s grace is remarriage
o God’s mercy has no death for adultery

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Proverbs 31 Woman

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o Trustworthy, doer of good, enjoys working for family, wise customer, helps provide for family, uses her gifts fro the family, strong, works until things are done, hard worker, charitable, loves her family, optimist, wise, kind, diligent, good mother, fears God

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1 Timothy 3 Man

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o Above reproach, husband of one wife, patient, wise, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not addicted, gentle, uncontentious, free from the love of money, manages household well, good father, strong in the Lord, dignified, truthful, honest

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Proverbs 4:23

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Guard your heart at all costs

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Rules for dating

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o Public places are safer places
o A schedule is necessary
o Get parental approval
o Eliminate Games – be clear
o Remember your friend is not yours, but God’s

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Rules for Gentlemen

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o Ask the lady out properly
o Don’t assume – she will go out, you can touch her, or anything
o Open doors, walk street side, no crude remarks
o Pay for everything
o Think of God first, then her

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Rules for Ladies

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o Think of God first, not him
o Hold to the Date time
o You don’t owe him anything, it is his privilege
o Modest dress is essential
o Expect to be treated like a princess

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- Pros to dating in high school

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Experience

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Cons to dating in high school

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Lack of maturity
Lack of wisdom
Lack of self control