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19 Cards in this Set
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principle of lesser interest
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person who has least interest in maintaining the relationship has more power
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fate control
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One partner has 100% of power > wife controlling whether sex occurs for faithful husband
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behavior control
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modifying behavior to cause partner to modify behavior in a desirable fashion
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types of power (6)
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1. reward power
2. Coercive power 3. Legit power : authority or norms 4. Referent power: respect and/or love 5. Expert power 6. Informational power |
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Study: how do you get your partner to do what you want?
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Men: direct, bilateral
Women: indirect, unilateral GENDER issue not sex, high instrumental direct/bilateral regardless |
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Situational couple violence
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-results from arguments that get out of hand
-two sided, rare, usually mild |
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Intimate terrorism
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-tool of oppression and control
-one sided, escalates over time -less likely to fight back, more likely to leave (and return) -usually men |
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Violent resistance
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-rarest, occurs in some instances of intimate terrorism
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Finkel's SCV model (3 factors)
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1. instigating triggers
2. impelling influences 3. inhibiting influences Influences can be distal, dispositional, relational or situational |
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cognitive interdependence
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conception of self as unit with partner, characterized by use of collective personal pronouns
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positive illusions
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-faults judged to be trivial
-help if not too divorced from reality |
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perceived superiority
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perception my relationship is better than all others
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Canary + Stafford's relationship strategies (10)
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positive, openness, assurances, sharing social network, sharing tasks, sharing activities, support, conflict management, avoidance, humor
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PREP program
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-given before marriage, more satisfaction than 79% of those not taking it
- power of commitment, importance of having fun, open communication on sex, consequences of irrational expectations |
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Behavioral couple therapy (BCT)
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-focuses on behavior of couple to function in a way that is more rewarding to partner
-quid-pro-quo, love days |
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Cognitive-behavioral couple's therapy (CBCT)
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Focus on cognitive strategies, selective attention, expectancies, attributions, relationship beliefs
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Integrative behavioral couple therapy (IBCT)
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-behavioral modifications plus adaptive emotional reactions
-empathic joining, unified detachment, tolerance building |
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Emotionally focused therapy (EFCT)
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focus on enabling partners as means of emotional security in response to problems they themselves may have caused (wtf)
-three stages: see common goal, establish constructive new patterns, rehearse strategies |
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Insight-Oriented therapy (IOCT)
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Freudian approach, looks to past events, affective reconstruction
-lasts more than others |
