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Structural Functionalism
1) What functions does the family serve for society?

Provides new members for society and Socialises new people into the structure of society. The Family structure helps society survive.

2) What functions are performed by its members for the family to survive?

Age and Gender Divisions of Labour. - Men (Instrumental) - task oriented. Women (expressive) - person-oriented.

3) What needs does the family meet for its members?
Mutual companionship and support, development of personality and social skills, socialisation of children.
Conflict Theory
Conflict is inevitable due to the inequality in society and people are self-oriented; Therefore,
need to focus on managing (not get rid) of Inequality as it's always going to be in relationships. Families differ in magnitude of conflict and how conflict is expressed.
Emphasis on competition and struggle as fundamental to social systems.
- Society consists of unequal elements (power is unequally distributed) -
1) Competition
2) Conflict
3) Power and Influence
Feminist Theory
Type of Conflict and Role Theory
-men have more access to power
-family is expected to be male dominated
-emphasis on women's experiences (women’s subordination under existing social arrangements)
-gender roles/ socialisation shape relations between men and women
-women are expected to be in mothering role
males are expected to be in instrumental role
-Emphasis on social change - ending unjust subordination
Family Life Cycle Theory
-Families change in predictable ways as do family members
-Individual and family development interact with each other
Vertical flow of anxiety
Intergenerational Connectedness
Patterns transmitted through generations
- family attitudes, expectations, issues with which we grow up
Horizontal flow of anxiety
Stresses experienced by the family as it develops
-predictable and unpredictable
(death, illness, war) (adolescence)
Historical changes in Family Life Cycle
- Longevity
We are living longer, so less of life spent child-rearing
More time as couple (or alone) at end of life
- Median age of first marriage (Increasing)
Family Life Cycle
Young adult, leaving home
New couple
Family with young children
Family with adolescents
Launching children
Family in later life
Second Order Change
change of system itself
Reorganization into new patterns
First Order Change
incremental change
Family Systems Theory
focuses on STRUCTURE and FUNCTIONS of the Family System
Family Systems Theory
(structure of family)
Boundaries (limits of a system/ subsystem)
Identifying components as a system draws a boundary between what is included and what is not part of the system
Family Systems Theory
(structure of family)
Hierarchy
Systems are arranged in hierarchical fashion, which determines the flow of power, influence, and emotion
Ordered and highly structured
Echelons (layer): parental subsystem a higher echelon than sibling subsystem
Family Systems Theory
(Functions of family)
Circular Patterns
patterns in a system are circular rather than linear
Change must be
directed at the cycle!
Family Systems Theory
(Functions of family)
Stability
Homeostasis
systems have homeostatic features and maintain the stability of their patterns within certain optimal ranges
error-activated process (thermostat)
Corrective feedback loops
Positive feedback (deviation amplifying)
System is altered.
System acts to pull itself back to its former state
Family Systems Theory
(Functions of family)
Change
Evolution and change are inherent in the family system
Morphogenisis (growth, change of form)
perturbation
Perturbation
challenge to patterns
system moves away from equilibrium
usual corrective responses not working
Family Systems Theory
(Functions of family)
Adaptation
exploration of alternatives
reorganize relationships
emergence of new patterns
example- serious illness in a parent
Family Systems Theory
- Structure
Individuals can only be understood in family context.
Family is more than sum of parts.

Wholeness
Any system is an organized whole, and elements within the system are necessarily interdependent.
Subsystems in a Family System
Each subsystem has its own boundaries
mother-daughter
father - daughter
parents
siblings
female
male
individual
Homeostasis
Mechanism of the Family's self regulation. Maintains equilibrium - stability of a family's patterns within certain optimal ranges. Usually resets after deviation. enabled by Negative Feedback it acts to reduce deviation from homeostasis. It increases Family rigidity and prevents possibilities for change.
Can keep Families from moving to a different stage and become 'stuck'
positive feedback
encourages deviation from homeostasis - homeostasis is blown - no correction. System moves to a new homeostasis..as a result it is hard to return back to the old homeostasis.
Marriage
changing 2 entire systems and overlapping to create a third subsystem
Becoming Parents
Families with young children have highest rates of divorce
Family Life Cycle - Parents of Adolescents
Boundaries must become permeable or family can become stuck. Parent's can no longer maintain complete authority.
Families at midlife (Family Life Cycle)
Launching Children can be met as a second opportunity or depression and loss "empty nest"
Family Life Cycle is Changing
fewer children, later marriages, later child birth, divorce, remarriage, longer life expectancy.

- due to this...Parents spend half lives child rearing instead of whole lives.
Family Life Cycle Phases
1) Young Adult
2) Marriage
3)Parents of young children
4) Parents of Adolescents
5)Parents at Midlife
6)Families in later life
Carter and McGoldrick (1989)
Family Life Cycle Perspective
Systems Theory
focuses on the patterns that are developed and maintained in the family over time, which regulate behaviour of family members
Critique of Structural Functionalism
Assumes only 'intact' families fulfil functions
Traditional Families are functional - divorced + remarried families are dysfunctional
Assumes Stability is best
Gender Bias - ignores social change, injustice and oppression
Legitimacy - example of Power
you have to do this because I am your mother
Economic - example of Power
I earn the money; therefore, I have the final say on expenses.
Physical- example of Power
Threaten Brutality if a person does not comply
Love - example of Power
If you loved me, you would do or not do this.
Critique of Conflict Theory
harsh judgement of human nature (does not include love, cooperation, self-sacrifice)

Conflict in families is hard to measure (hidden or avoided)
Critique of Feminist Theory
Much of the feminist research is Qualitative - hard to generalise.

political phenomenon
Developmental Psychologists
Focus on Individuals, not Family Systems
General Systems Theory
a system is a set of elements organised in a consistent relationship.
Ecological Perspective
Interrelationships between Organisms and Their Environment
Bi-directional Effects (Ecological Perspective)
we respond to our environment and therefore that environment as it influences us.
(reciprocal influence)
Family shapes Child; Child shapes Family
Bronfenbrenner's Ecological Approach
Influences can be opportunities and risks

Contexts are Proximal to Distal
-Microsystem
-Mesosystem
-Exosystem
-Macrosystem

need to also consider the relations between the systems themselves.
Attack-Withdrawal Patterns
Women are more likely to attack
Men are more likely to withdraw

avoidance may cause escalation as patterns are circular.
Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse
(John Gottman)
Problems that diagnose Couples who likely to divorce.
1) Complain/Criticise
Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse
wives complain and criticise more than husbands (and this escalates - dysfunctional when it escalates out of proportion)

wives complaining and criticising is only related own physiological arousal.

Men's complaining and criticising unrelated to any physiological arousal.

negative disclosure can harm satisfaction
2) Contempt/ Disgust
Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse
contempt - insult, sarcasm, disapproval
communicates sense of incompetence in partner
disgust - fed up, repulsed

emotions are shown in face and speech
Husband's facial expressions of contempt predicts wife's physical illness 4 years later
Wife's facial expressions of disgust correlated with number of months the couple will be separated in next 4 years
3) Defensiveness
Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse
denial of blame or responsibility - counter blame
protect self from attack
-include whining "it's not fair..why me..i didn't do anything"
-include negative mindreading
"you always get tense at parties..you don't care"
4) Stonewalling
Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse
similar to withdrawal
no vocalisation or head nods, listener does not look at speaker
men do this more (85%)
It is stressful (increases heart rate) for both wives and husbands
Sound Marital House
Used in treatment
focus on marital friendship
creating positive sentiment override
regulating conflict creating shared symbolic meaning
Challenges to the Transition of Marriage
-Time use
-use of money
-family traditions to keep or invent
- re-negotiation of relationships with parents, friends, siblings and co-workers
Lillian Rubin Study
Study on Working Class Families adjustment to Marriage

Traditional marital adjustment problems are influenced by youth and economic insecurity.
Working Families adjustment of Marriage
Rubin Study
married earlier
more adjustments
more divorce
Adjustments to Marriage
Money shortages
financial responsibilities
job instability
early parenting
in-law issues
moving back in with parents
Characteristics that predict Martial Quality
- Homogamy (tendency to marry someone similar)
-later age at marriage
-higher education, occupation and financial resources
- good relationships with parents
-approval of spouse by family
-Duration of Marriage (high in early years but declines - steepest shortly after marriage..may or may not rise after children leave home)
- positive communication and self -disclosure
-shared interests and companionship
Important in predicting Marital Quality
Agreeing on Roles and Filling them competently

Reciprocity (giving what we receive and receive what we have given)
Equity (exchanges balance out)
Adjustments to Parenthood
.Role Changes - (irrevocable role shift) new labour to divide - baby creates challenge to equality. Always will be parents.
. Structural Changes to Family System - not just a couple dyad anymore - multiple relationships added
. Relationship difficulties
. Time, Energy
. Money
.Social Isolation
Benefits of Children
Overall Life Satisfaction Increases
Sense of family, connection to partner and closer to own parents
(although non-parents are happier and less irritated)
Characteristics of easier adjustment
- Marital Satisfaction before birth
- Involvement of Husband (support from husband -> marital adjustment)
- wanting to have children
Coping with Parenthood
- Being Adaptable
- Sharing Parenting Responsibilities
- Continue some pre-child activities
- recognise importance of wife-husband relationship
- use social support
-help father realise nurturant potential (alone time with baby)
- look to the future
Infant Attachment
the close emotional bond between the infant and caregiver
Freudian Prespective on Attachment
infant attaches to mother to meet basic biological needs (feeding)
Learning Theory on Attachment
Infant learns to attach to mother through repeated association
Harlow perspective on Attachment
feeding is not crucial to attachment - the importance of early experience
Lorenz perspective on Attachment
limited period for early social bonding
Erikson perspective on Attachment
1st year of life is crucial for the development of trust
Attachment Theory
an Ethological Approach to developing relationships

In order to survive, infants are biologically predisposed to monitor adult caregivers and seek proximity to them.
Functions of Attachment
a Goal-corrected control system
Behavioural Goal (to be close to a protective figure)
Psychological Goal (to feel secure)

especially in times of stress
Internal Working Model
-Attachment
-Representation of the relationship between infant and caregiver
-actively working
-continuously evolving
-usually not conscious
-Informs child about identity of caregiver, location of caregiver and accessibility of caregiver in times of stress
- creates current and future expectations
Ainsworth et al (1978) study
Strange Situation Study
Type A : Insecure - Avoidant
Type of Attachment
displays INDIFFERENCE to caregiver's presence;
IGNORES or actively AVIODS caregiver on reunion

predicts conduct behaviour and dependence
Type B : Secure
Type of Attachment
uses caregiver as a secure base for exploration
INTENSE DELIGHT at reunion; distress not easily soothed at separation


predicts - sensitive and cooperative interactions
and independence and self reliance
self confident, higher self-esteem, ego-resilient
coping strategies were persistent and flexible
Type C : Insecure - Resistant/Ambivalent
Type of Attachment
RESISTS exploration; CLINGS; high levels of distress at separation; resists and seeks contact on reunion

predicts anxiety disorders and dependence and less self reliance
Type D : Disorganised
Type of Attachment
does not display a coherent mode; may CRY then HIT; may FREEZE or show FEAR OF PARENT; often bizarre behaviours

predicts conduct disorder and self injurious behaviour (cutting/burning)
Basic Findings of Attachment Studies
Patterns of Infant Attachment are predictive of behaviour in early childhood, adolescence and adulthood

If the attachment figure is physically and psychologically sensitive to the infant's needs - then the infant will form a secure base to explore the world and sense of identity
Autonomous (Group F) / Secure
Adult Attachment Pattern
- provides coherent discourse
had secure infants
Dismissive (Group D)/ insecure-dismissing
Adult Attachment Pattern
- cut themselves off from memories
had avoidant infants
Preoccupied (Group E) insecure-preoccupied
Adult Attachment Pattern
-Inconsistent, often angry
had ambivalent infants
Unresolved (Group U) unresolved-disorganised
Adult Attachment Pattern
- are Fearful and/or irrational about traumatic attachment events
had disorganised infants
Coalition
2 tryads against 1.
2 parents against 1 child
Relationship Dynamics Scale
Used to assess the danger signs in a relationship
Principle priority of a father's transition to parenthood
Work
Parenting Styles most common in mothers and fathers in a study of Australian parents
Mothers tend to be Authoritative
Fathers tend to be Authoritarian or Permissive
Social Exchange Theory
Motivations for behaviour lie in the anticipated costs and rewards.
weigh up costs against rewards
rewards - different value to different people
Reward - Cost = Outcome
Comparison Level
Social Exchange Theory
standard that develops over time from own and others' experiences
-generalised expectations of quality of relationships
Comparison Level of Alternatives
Comparing the present situation to the perceived alternatives
Social Exchange Theory
Satisfaction -> increases Commitment
Investment -> increases Commitment
Comparison Alternative -> Decreases Commitment
Critique of Social Exchange Theory
Assumes profit seeking
Cannot be disproved
% of Traditional Australian Families
27.5% of Australian Families with children under 5 are Traditional
Social Exchange Theory
Outcome - Comparison Level = Satisfaction
Social Exchange Theory
Satisfaction - Alternatives + Investments = Commitment
Danger Signs used in the Relationship Dynamics Scale
Danger Signs
escalation (responding negatively back in forth)
invalidation (put downs...invalidating the person)
attack-withdrawal
negative interpretations of behaviour
Average work hours for Men
40+ hours
either employed or unemployed
Average work hours for Women
a Continuum of employment
-casual, part time, full time
surface structure
of friendships
Aspect of relationships changes over time and the lifespan and different contexts
deep structure of friendship
symmetrical reciprocity
aspect of relationships that stays the same
Attachment predicts what behaviours
play and exploration
pre-school competence
John Gottman Mathematical modelling
emotional inertia (remaining same in relationship)
power
negativity in relationship - has more power to hurt than positivity has to heal.
Characteristics of Dual Earner Families with Children
Men work more
Women work less
Average Hours Men spend on Domestic duties
11 hours on average spent on domestic duties
3 Friendship Types
Interdependent (cooperation and autonomous)
Disengaged (disconnection)
Consensus (cohesion and agreement is maximised)
Internal Working Model
cognitive and emotional component

significant in pre-school period
theory of mind
metacognitive awareness
Average Hours Women spend on Domestic duties
20 hours spent on average on domestic duties
Hartup - How friendships Qualitatively Differ
constructiveness ( conflict resolution)
content resolution (presence of absence of Anti Social behaviour)
closeness (time spent together)
symmetry of social power (Level of Social Power)
effective substrates (supportive/secure)
Reasons behind lack of Male Housework
- Traditional Sex Roles (even in couples with egalitarian values)
- Many Partners don't want help (perceived incompetence of men/ Territoriality)
- Men don't want to help (housework is lower status than paid work)
Conjugal Identity
role - prescriptions for behaviour associated with social position of spouse

identity - unique attributes and traits associated with each spouse within marriage
2 areas Specifically Developmental Psychologists don't focus on
Subsystem Boundaries + Coalition
2 Qualitative Methods of Friendship
Dimensional strategy - elements present and not present
Typological/ Categorical Strategy - patterns of interaction involved
Characteristics of Friendships
socio-demographic sources (most likely to be friends from someone in same background)
social selection - actively look for people who are similar
socialisation - interactions make people similar

With regard to antisocial activities, such as delinquency, it appears as if “birds of a feather flock together”
Selection and socialization both matter for drug use
Sex differences in Work
Men prefer Status-based Satisfiers

Women prefer Socio-emotional Satisfiers
Rebelsky and Hanks (1971) Study on Father's interaction with infants
Father's spent 38 secs/day interacting with infants
most devoted father's spent 10+ mins/day interacting with infant
over time - father's spent 70% less time interacting with child.
Time Spent in day-to-day caretaking
Father's spent 12 hours/ wk compared to Mother's 33 hours/wk
Hagen and Kuebli (2007) Study
Father's of Daughters monitored children more closely than fathers of sons (might promote caution in girls)

Mother's of Sons monitored children the same as Mother's of Daughters
Parenting Adolescents
In general mother's and fathers show similar interactional styles with adolescents
Findings from Studies on Fathering Adolescents
Paternal Involvement is positively related to adolescent psychosocial adjustment

Father's influence sons and daughters values and beliefs about sports

China - Paternal Warmth predicts social competence and academic achievement
Functions of Friendship
Validation
Self-esteem
Affection
Self-disclosure
Sensitivity
Modelling relationships
Instrumental aid
Alliances
Companionship
Support
Experimentation
Learning
Non-family base
Hartup
The identity of one’s friends & friendship quality are significant in predicting differences in developmental outcome
In Early Childhood
children’s social understanding is correlated with cooperative pretend play with sibs & friends
In Middle Childhood
Sibling support can buffer anxious & socially isolated children

friendships outside the family may diminish sibling closeness

effects of gender & birth order: 1st-born boys report less warmth & intimacy with their younger sisters than 1st-born girls.
Youth Culture Components
Image –dress, hairstyle, piercings, other aspects of appearance
Demeanour – distinctive forms of gesture, gait, posture
Argot – certain vocabulary and way of speaking
Functions of Peer Group
Share experiences
Develop norms
Work out roles
Self-exploration
Transitional group
Equal footing, non-hierarchical
Group identity
Two types of unpopular, or disliked, adolescents
- Rejected Type: Aggressive, fights with other students

- Neglected Type : Withdrawn, exceedingly shy, timid, and inhibited
Clique
Structure of Peer Groups
Small groups of friends who know each other well, do things together, and form a regular social group

Similarity is one basis for formation - Same sex, age, class in school, ethnic background, SES, neighbourhood

Shared interests is another
Crowd
Structure of Peer Groups
Larger, reputation-based groups of adolescents who are not necessarily friends and do not necessarily spend time together

Facilitates identity development
Fit in with supportive group
Structure social interaction
Formal reward system
Involvement in institutions controlled by adults, such as school and extracurricular activities
Academic achievement
Promotion of the school mission and values
Compliance to adult authority
Informal reward system
Teen culture
Peer status
Structure of Adolescent Crowds
Over the course of adolescence, the crowd structure becomes more differentiated, more permeable, and less hierarchical, allowing adolescents more freedom to change crowds and enhance their status
% of stay at home Father's
3.4% stay at home while mother works
Single People Compared to Married Counterparts in the workplace
Single women work more than married women

Single men work less than married men
Division of the day spent on unpaid/paid work
Women spend more time on unpaid than paid work

Men spend more time on paid work than unpaid work

Total of work hours is similar between men and women
Men and Housework
Men do more than in the past - currently 30% of housework

Lack Initiative - but will help when asked
Predictors of Men Helping at home
Motivation – have to want to
Support – others encourage him
Skills – have to know how
Fewer structural barriers – work schedules
Australian statistics collected through 2006
Males spent an average of 2 hours and 34 minutes a week on childcare

Females spent an average of 6 hours and 53 minutes on childcare

Both men and women’s hours of childcare have increased since 1992 - By approximately 1 hour
Working Mothers
women’s hours spent working does not reduce hours spent in childcare

quality of childcare does not decrease

Working mothers spend almost as much time as non working mothers in childcare (Time is taken from other areas)

Mothers have more knowledge than fathers, even when they work full time
Parent's Knowledge of Child
- Hours the mother works - not related to knowledge of child
- Fathers’ knowledge is greater if mother works more hours
- Father often knows more about sons than daughters
- As child gets older, both mother and father know less
Gender Pay Gap in Australia
The gender pay gap was 18% in Australia in 2010
WA has the largest gender pay gap of any Australian state - 26%

Highest annual wages are in male dominated professions

Female dominated areas tend to be lower earning jobs

A large proportion of the gender pay gap is associated with being in feminised work
Female Dominated Areas of Work
Often cater to part-time needs
Men still usually occupy the managerial roles
Status-based career satisfiers
Salary
Highly regarded
Promotion
Socio-emotional career satisfiers
Teamwork
Interpersonal relations
Supportive environment (Family-life Accommodations)
Differences in Male and Female Managers
Male managers prefer status-based career satisfiers

Female managers prefer socio-emotional career satisfiers
Hakim - 3 Types of Women
Home-centred (20% of women)
Adaptive (60% of women)
Work-centred (20% of women)
Critiques of Hakim’s definitions
- Choice as a problematic level of explanation
- Needs to incorporate unpaid work
- Ignores variability of women
- Ignores changes over time
- Ignores real restraints and opportunities that can affect the direction peoples' lives take
- Needs to incorporate social structures
Macro Level of opportunities/constraints of Women in the workplace
Labour market demand
More substitute care available
Societal changes leading to less housework
Social norms
Micro Level of opportunities/constraints of Women in the workplace
Education and work experience
Economic need
Number and age of dependants
Substitute care
Perceived rewards of work
Partner
Critiques of Gerson’s work
Still a dichotomy of traditional and non-traditional
(Often not so black and white)

What about women who want both?
(Career and children -Does this mean women can’t really ‘have it all’?)

Overall, a more comprehensive model yet still reductionist of the woman’s experience
Gersen - Traditional Women compared to Non-Traditional Women
Compared domestic women to working mothers along 2 dimensions:
- Early childhood expectations (Traditional/ Non-Traditional) about life goals
- Real constraints and opportunities
Expectations of a good mother
- Full time carer
- Fully satisfied and fulfilled by domestic responsibilities
- Mothers often left feeling guilty if they can’t maintain the expectations of the ‘good mother’
exhaustion effect
Mothers (stay-at-home and breadwinner)consistently report higher levels of stress and exhaustion than their spouses
inequity effect
Low participation of male partner leads to female partner dissatisfaction
Positive Effects from Staying at home
Profound sense of intimacy with their children
High levels of self esteem, satisfaction with marriage
Avoids the stress of work-life balance
Avoids guilt of missing time with children
Negative Effects from Staying at home
More dependency, feel underappreciated
More frustration, less patience with children
Negative perceptions – ‘wasting education’
Sometimes leads to social isolation, depression
Especially when ‘opting out
Glass Ceiling
top roles are predominantly held by men
Predictors of adjustment to the Stay-at-home Father Role
Strong social support
High parenting self-efficacy
Low conformity to traditional masculine norms
Stay-at-home Father's on Child Development
Can help reduce the frequency of behavioural problems in boys
Can help language and cognitive development
Can help social skills
These benefits may increase over time
However, children may face social consequences
Sons are more likely to exhibit socio-emotional behavioural problems by age 5
BUT daughters in male-breadwinner households more likely to have difficulties by age 5
Working Mother Effects on Children
Varying research suggests that there are no consistent effects

Employment of mothers has little to no direct effect on children

Mediators may be more important
Mediators that may influence the effects of the working mother on children
Day-care quality
Child characteristics
Family characteristics
Family income
Parental education
Other family characteristics (Hoffman & Youngblade, 1999)
Mother’s/father’s sense of well-being
Parents’ child-rearing behaviours and patterns
Gender of child
Start up of Conflict in Homosexual Couples
greater postivity,
greater acceptance
less belligerent
less dominering
less fear
less whining
less sadness
less tension
more affection
more humor
more joy and excitement
compared to Heterosexual couples
Influences on Married Couples
the structure and experience of couples is influenced at any moment in time by a combination of Micro and Macrolevel factors
Intergenerational Connectedness
adopting themes that have been central to the family of origin
willingness to remain identified with and connected to past family experiences
Role
shared prescriptions for behaviours associated with a social position

provide predictability and enable others with whom they interact, to anticipate behaviour and maintain order and regularity of social interactions.
Conjugal Role
the prescriptions for behaviour associated with the social position of a spouse
Counter Roles
Each role carries with it expectations for behaviour that superimpose expectations for behaviour on the other in the counter position.
Transition to Marriage
Conflict, Stress and Dissatisfaction ensue - when one partner's expectations and behaviour are not consistent with the other partner's expectations and behaviour
Role Conflict
lack of role clarity and consensus about how roles should be enacted creates the stress, which brings with it the need for negotiations
Same-sex relationships (Homosexual Couples)
More Negotiation and Bargaining is needed in Transition to Marriage in this Type of Couple
Conjugal Identity
the unique attributes, traits, characteristics associated with each individual as a spouse within the marriage

facilitate the predictability and ease of interaction between marital partners
Couple Identity
Congruence between each Conjugal Identity is one aspect of establishing a clearly defined....
After Marriage
the almost exclusive focus on the relationship tends to decline - replaced with greater interest in establishing boundaries that also enable each partner to maintain an identity and interests that are separate from the relationship
Socialisation
Women are often assumed to have more expertise in domestic chores
Marital Sexual Script
blueprint for sexual activity
encompasses a wide range of motives and behaviours that guide how we act in sexual situations
behavioural aspect (sexual activites that are acceptable in the relationship)
When, Where and how frequently it is appropriate to have sex
Conflict
Can occur whenever one spouse's desires or expectations are incompatible with those of the other
Caused by the alterations in the couple's established strategies
Transition to Parenthood
Points of Conflict
-Division of Labour
-Money
-Work
-their Relationship
-Social Life
Transition to Parenthood
Wife measures what a husband does against what she does

Husband measures what he does against what his own father did
Principle reason parents touch less
New Parents Touch Less frequently because they feel less connected and less in tune with each other.
Male Self-focus
Man's emotional energy and attention all too frequently tend to flow inward toward his own concerns and needs

can leave women feeling lonely and estranged
Social Isolation - Transition to Parenthood
Work Protects Men from desperate isolation that many women feel
Parenthood and Maturity
Men feel more responsible about work

Women feel they behave more sensibly
Nurturant attentiveness of new fathers
Fathers and Mothers experience similar changes in hormonal levels (increasing levels of prolactin and cortisol) (decreased levels of testosterone and estradiol) around birth of infants
Hormonal Changes
Female Hormone Estrogen appears to make younger women more sensitive to infantile cuteness than meb or menopausal women
Parents with infants
Both Mothers and Fathers were better at touching their infants hands than by touching their faces
Schoppe-Sullivan et al. (2006) study
Parents and 1 year old childen
Mothers and Fathers were same in regards to sensitivity towards 1 year old sons
BUT
Mothers were more sensitive to Daughters than Sons
compared to Fathers
Father-Child Relationship
Father's who had loving and secure relationships in childhood - were more sensitivr, attentive and involved than fathers who recalled poor relationships in childhood
Father -Child relationship
Pre-school years represent a peak in levels of father-child interaction - decline in the elementary school period.
Parents and Infants
Mothers engaged in more pretend play with their daughters

Fathers engaged in more physical play with sons
Authoriative Parenting
encourage independence
use rational explanation
sensitive to and facilitate their children's changing sense of self
allow themselves to learn from child
maximise postive impact
balance reasoning and punishment
Used more with Daughters
Authoritarian Parenting
Value Obedience
recommend forceful imposition of parent's will.

used more with Sons
Permissive Parenting
believe they should not be intrusive but available
Non-conformist parenting
Opposed to authority
however - less passive than permissive parenting
and exert more control
Stage 1
Dunphy Study - Peer Groups
Pre-Crowd
Isolate Unisex Cliques
Stage 2
Dunphy Study - Peer Groups
Beginning of the crowd
Unisex cliques in group-to-group interaction
Stage 3
Dunphy Study - Peer Groups
the crowd in structural transition
Unisex cliques with upper status members forming heterosexual clique
Stage 4
Dunphy Study - Peer Groups
Fully developed Crowd
Heterosexual Cliques in close association
Stage 5
Dunphy Study - Peer Groups
Begining of Crowd Disintegration
Loosely associated groups of couples