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50 Cards in this Set
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Characteristics of the Passion Cluster
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Fascination
Sexual Desire Exclusiveness |
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Fatuous love lacks
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Intimacy
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Strongest Love Relationship
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Consummate Love
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highest area of agreement for happily married couples
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religious orientation
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How divorce affects attitudes toward marriage
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it makes you not value marriage as much
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Love triangle and commitment
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Commitment, Intimacy, Passion
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Americans Select partners
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physical attraction
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people with high self esteem or self acceptance
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perceive themselves to be similar to their partners
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Very dissimilar people who marry
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are often among couples who are likely to divorce
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cohabitation subsequent marriage
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increases the probability to divorce
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Physical aggression in dating couples
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highest among younger couples of lower economic status who had been drinking
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dating and physical relationships
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permissiveness refers to how physically intimate couples are before marriage
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cohabitation from 1970-2000
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increased 10 fold from 500,000 to 5.5 million couples
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cohabitators compared to non cohabitators
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Cohabitation before engagement resulted in: lower couple commitment, more negative couple interaction, lower couple satisfaction, lower confidence in the relationship,
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Best predictor of marital success
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realistic expectations
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before marriage couples should
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have premarital counseling
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defensiveness
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blaming one's spouse by denying one's won role in an issue or problem
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feedback from premarital inventories
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significantly affects the relationship
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PREPARE is able to predict what percentage of relationships
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80%-85%
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reason why marriages drift apart
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we take marriage for granted and focus on other things
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parent education programs
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new Chance
presentations and discussions about parenting |
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1997 estimates to raise a child
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$178,590
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authoritarian parents
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high in cohesion, low in flexibility, moody, vulnerable to stress, and often unfriendly
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permissive parents
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flexible to chaotic, cohesive to enmeshed, parent allows child's preferences to take priority over their ideals
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democratic parenting
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clear rules when discussed with child
connect to cohesive, strutted to flexible acknowledged child's perspective, however enforces their standards by reason and power |
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hitting and suicidal thoughts
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hitting adolescence increases suicidal thoughts
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Number of young adults living with adult parents
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4 million or 1 out of every 4
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life expectancy
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77.2 years
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depression in older adults
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often alluded to old age, but sometimes linked to life occurrences
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% of wives widowed
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3 out of 4 or 75%
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life expectancy for men and women
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males 74.4
females 79.8 |
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killing partners
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murdered women
30% by husband, ex-husband or boyfriend |
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work family strain
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young couples with children
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childbearing years
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financial and business strains
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financial strain
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families with school aged children
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spiritual well being
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praying: seeking help from pastor, minister or rabbi
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reframing
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cognitive resource and involves defining the situation as a challenge that can be conquered rather than denying its problem
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stepparents and child abuse rates
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more likely to abuse kids
40% greater chance for stepchildren |
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highest divorce rate among women
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60%-80% in the teen years
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divorce and children
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a crisis in the lives of children who experience it also creates feelings of sadness, regret and anger
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Wallerstein Study
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she did a study on negative impact of divorce on children and concluded that it has a long term effect on children such as depression, underachieving, emotional problems and love relationship problems
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low conflict divorces and children
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2/3 of marriages, negative impact on the adult child's development. the offspring psychological distress, few friends, less happy marriages, greater chances for divorce
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child support payments
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48% make full payment
26% make partial payment 26$ make no payment |
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increases 1970-2000 of single African American
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64%
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1970-2000 increase in female Caucasian single parent
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12% to 26%
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qualities of strong and successful families
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commitment to family
enjoyable time together ability to manage stress and crisis spiritual well being positive communication apperception and affection |
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difficult time of life and families
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couple flexibility
personality issues communication lea sure activities parenting |
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premarital counseling
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improves relationships and reduces chances of divorce, 6-8 weeks long and start a year before marriage, most common is the PREPARE program
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rituals
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a very useful way to build on intentional family relationship through coordinated actives that have a significant for the family
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leadership equality
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the most problematic issue for couples in a relationship with over 93% of coupes agreeing
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