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Celibacy:

Complete:


Individual does not engage in either masturbation or interpersonal sexual contact




Partial:


Does not engage in interpersonal sexual contact but continues to engage in masturbation

Erotic fantasy

Mental experiences that arise from our imagination or life experience or that are simulated by the internet, books, drawings, photographs, or movies

Masturbation

Stimulation of one’s own genitals to create sexual pleasure

Fellatio




Cunnilingus

Fellatio is oral stimulation of penis




Cunnilingus is oral stimulation of vulva

Coitus

Penile vaginal intercourse

Intromission

Insertion of penis into the vagina

Tantric intercourse

Sexual expression can become a form of spiritual meditation & a path of deep connection




Male learns to control and delay his orgasm and redirect sexual energy through him and his partner

What are some reasons for/advantages of celibacy?

Reasons:




Most commonly associated with religious devotion




Choose it due to experience of confusion or disappointmentin past sexual relationships




Health considerations-STI or pregnancy




Some women embraced celibacy to free themselves from thelimitations of the expected gender roles of marriage and motherhood




Advantages:




Explore self-pleasuringLearning to value aloneness, autonomy & privacyGiving priority to work & non-sexual commitments




Gain deeper friendships

What can be helpful or problematic about sexual fantasies?

Helpful:


Increase interest, arousal and orgasm




Can be a part of healing for individuals experienced sexabuse




Harmful:


Cause difficulty to have orgasm during sex due toidiosyncratic sexual fantasies they require for intense arousal are discordantwith their partner’s sexual behavior




Fantasizing privately during sex can erode intimacy




Partner feel jealous or threatened

Dominant social attitudes toward masturbation and where do they originate?

Manyof the negative attitudes toward masturbation are rooted in early Jewish andChristian views that procreation was the only legitimate purpose of sexualbehavior




Masturbationcould not result in conception, so it was condemned




AEuropean physician, Samuel Tissot, who believed that the loss of semen wasdebilitating to health, seeing it as “self-abuse”




Anencyclopedia published in 1918 described the health symptoms of masturbation




Freudrealized it was not harmful, but saw it as an issue if done in adulthood




Sometraditional condemnation still exists, in 1993 pope said it was unacceptable




In 1970’s, feminists promoted masturbation as a natural, healthy sexualactivity

What concerns may exist regarding oral/genital stimulation? Anal stimulation?

Oral genital contact may stem from false ideas that it isunsanitary or solely a homosexual act or from religious beliefs that it’simmoral




Anal stimulation needs careful hygiene and use condoms toprevent transmittance of AIDS

Mal'z Hierarchy

Describes the context in which sexualexperiences occur




The 3 positive levels of sexual attraction are built onmutual choice, caring, respect and safety




The 3 negative levels show thatsexual interactions can be upsetting or traumatic ordeals, often imposed on oneperson by the other




+3: Authentic Sexual Intimacy


[emotional openness&closeness; ecstasy]




+2: Making Love


[pleasure focused, mutuality,experimentation]




+1: Positive Role Fulfillment


[social-role behavior,religious/cultural duty, reproduction]




Sexual Energy [ground zero]




-1: Impersonal Interaction


[lack of responsibility for birthcontrol, STI’s, or well-being of self or other]




-2: Abusive Interaction


[sexual dominance and coercion]




-3: Violent Interaction


[sex used to express hostility,rape]

Advantages/disadvantages to various coital positions?

Each position provides various opportunities for physicaland emotional expression




In some positions, one person has greater freedom toinitiate and control the tempo, angle and style of movement to create arousingstimulation




In other positions, mutual control of the rhythm ofthrusting works well




Woman on top, lend themselves to manual stimulation of theclitoris




Face-to-face is a relaxing connection




Rear-entry can be a comfortable option during pregnancy




Control or stimulation for one ofthe partners, side to side is more intimate




Rear entry lacks intimacy, but iscomfortable option during pregnancy