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We fall in love with the person who offers us the fairest exchange.
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equality
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Not attracted to people who give you negative reinforcement.
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byme's law of attraction
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Learn to like people who are associated with positive events or qualities.
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byme's law of attraction
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Attracted to someone who is out temperamental opposite
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complementatry needs
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Can lead to trouble if we want the person to fill the missing parts instead of improving ourselves.
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complementary needs
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Feel attracted to people who give you positive reinforcement
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Byme's law of attraction
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Dislike people associated with negative events or qualities
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Byme's Law of Attraction
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Looking for a person who is like your mother or father
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Parent image
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Someone who fills your expectations of what a partner should do or be.
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Role compatibility
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Trade our positives and negatives in exchange for the other person's positives and negatives
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Equality
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Attracted to someone who has characteristics we admire and would like in ourselves
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complemantary needs
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Tendency to chose someone who lives close to your home
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propinquity
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Likes attract likes
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Homogamy
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You are likely to be attracted to people who you think are the most like you in these areas: physical appearance, mental health, physical health, family background, family stability, and popularity
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Homogamy
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Based on the ideas that we : seek pleasure and avoid pain, are inherently selfish , are happiest when we get what we think we deserve, and try to balance relationships
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Equallity
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Which of the following is not a sign of infatuation
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-fear of rejection
-heartache -drastic mood swings -constantly thinking of the person |
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Infatuation is believed to last for approximately:
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2 weeks to 2 years
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According to Sternberg's theory of complete love, what are the 3 sides of the triangle that must be in place for the most positive relationship
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intimacy, passion, commitment
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Intimacy according to Sternberg is
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-sexual attraction
-lust |
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According to Sternberg, what type of love is lacking intimacy and passion
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empty love
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The more I get to know her, the better she becomes
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stage 1
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one minute I'm sure, the next I'm not
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Stage 1
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I'm jealous
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stage 1
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I'm beginning to see a side of her I've never seen before...and I'm not sure I like it
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stage 2
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I can't believe how great he is...he's just wonderful
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stage 1
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Once I realized she wasn't going to cook all the meals, I realized she wasn't marriage material
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stage2
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I think I'm in love
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stage 1
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We're growing apart
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stage 2
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I can live with the fact that he has a few faults
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stage 3
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She isn't that way when we're alone
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stage 2
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All types of love are positive, because love feels so good it must be positive
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false
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Nurturing or mature love makes a person feel proud and ambitious, not want to give up everything for love like infatuation
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true
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People in romantic love idealize their partners and often can't see any faults in that person
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true
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Most people have a highly romanticized view of love
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true
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most people will be infatuated many times before they find a mature love relationship
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true
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finds joy in separateness as well as togetherness
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love
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grows slowly and steadily
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love
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very selfish in actions
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infatuation
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emotions flow at a fast rate
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infatuation
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aware of the other person's faults, but accepts them as part of the total personality
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love
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tries not to see the other person's faults
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infatuation
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enhanced by time
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love
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makes one feel proud, confident, and ambitious
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love
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May be distrustful of friends
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infatuation
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often pushes people away, jealousy is often present
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infatuation
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The only 100% effective way to prevent pregnancy
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abstinence
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Any method of preventing conception
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contraception
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Pills that prevent pregnancy by stopping ovulation or by changing conditions in the uterus
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oral contraceptives
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A dome that fits over the cervix and holds spermicidal cream or jelly against the uterine entrance to block the passage of sperm
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diaphragm
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A device inserted into the uterus to prevent conception or implantation
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intro-uterine device (IUD)
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A trade name for a surgical hormone delivery system that provides continuous release of progestin, thereby preventing pregnancy for 5 years.
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norplant
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A rubber cap that fits over the cervix, used with spermicide to prevent conception
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cervical cap
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A trade name for an injectable form of progesstin
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depo-provera
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The process of permanently interrupting a person's ability to bear children through surgery
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sterilization
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A sheath worn over the penis during intercourse to contain the semen, to prevent pregnancy. Also helps reduce the risk of STDs
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condom
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A form of contraception that comes in the form of creams or jellies that is inserted into the vagina right before intercourse
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spermicide
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A soft, thin plastic tube with 2 end rings-one that fits over the cervix and one to serve as an anchor outside the entrance of the vagina
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female condom
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Controls the primary and secondary sex characteristics in men. Also aids in sperm production
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testosterone
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The entrance into the uterus
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cervix
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Contains the eggs and controls hormone production in women
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ovaries
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Responsible for primary and secondary sex characteristics in women. It also regulates repoductive functions
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estrogen
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The birth canal. It is also the femal organ for intercourse
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vagina
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The male organ for intercourse
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penis
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A hollow, muscular, pear shaped organ, where the fertilizied egg will grow and develop into a baby.
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uterus
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If pregnancy does not occur, the lining of the uterus prepared during the menstrual cycle is shed in
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menstruataion
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Preparation for a healthy pregnancy begins
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far in advance
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During ovulation, the ovum (egg) is expelled from the ovary and travels through the ___ before it reaches the uterus. This is the area where conception occurs
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fallopian tubes
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Contraceptive methods that physically or chemically obstruct the travel of sperm toward the egg
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barrier methods
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When a woman begins using oral contraceptives, for how long should she use a backup method of birth control
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1 month
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One disadvantage to using oral contraceptives is
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-side effects
-Doesn't protect against STDs |
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Groups that are at high risk for STDs include
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-intravenous drug users
-Anyone who has had previous sexual partners and who has not, since than been tested for STDs -Having unprotected vaginal, oral or anal sex with your current partner |
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People can reduce their risk for STDs by
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-avoiding contact with the partner's bodily fluids
-using latex condoms with spermicide -refusing alcohol or other drugs |
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What is the most common STD for your age group
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chlamydia
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Sores or chancres around the genitals are caused by
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herpes
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Untreated chlamydia infections can lead to
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sterility
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The human papilloma virus (HPV or genital warts) can cause
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cancer of the cervix
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Antibiotics are only effective for the STDs that are
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bacterial
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What are some common signs a person may be infected with an STD
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-abdominal cramping
-painful urination -no symptoms |
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1 in ___ teens will acquire an STD
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3
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This STD is the most common on a college campus
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HPV (genital warts)
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The most common college STD is
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viral
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This STD has 3 stages, the first being a painless sore or chancre on the sex organs, mouth, breasts or hands that will last 1-5 weeks
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syphilis
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which of the following is considered a cure for aids
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None
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AIDS is the acronym for
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Acquire immune Deficiencey Syndrome
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What are some aspects of a relationship couples should consider before having sex
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-experience
-pregnancy prevention -STDs |
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What percentage of teens will be involved in an abusive dating relationship by the time they graduate high school
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60%
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What is jealousy commonly mistaken for in a relationship
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-love
-frustration -mistrust |
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Violence is often excused as being
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-stress
-an act of anger -a misunderstanding |
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Domestic violence is defined as
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a person abusing someone in which they are in a relationship
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The cycle of violence includes
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growing tension, violence, honeymoon
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the 4 types of domestic violence are
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verbal, sexual, physical, emotional
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____is often the worst result of long-term domestic violence for the victim
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murder
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common excuses for using violence from the abuser could be
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-she/he made me mad
-refusal of sexual advances -alcohol or other drugs |
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which is not a form of dating violence
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none of the above
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If a child is abused growing up, or witnesses a parent being abused they are ___ likely to be an abuser as an adult
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more
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In the cycle of violence, the honeymoon stage may include which actions by the abuser
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abuser may apologize for the abuse
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according to MSU's safe place, ___ to ___ percent of the college student population has experienced relationship violence
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25 to 30
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In 1998, the US Deparment of Justice found that the percentage of dating violence for teenage girls was ___ than adults
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higher
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What are some things you could do to help a friend in an abusive situation
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Express your concerns
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On average a victim of domestic violence will try to leave the relationship ___times
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7
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In the state of Michigan you must be ___ years old to legally consent to sex
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16
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Which factor does not allow a person to legally consent
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-being under the influence of drugs or alcohol
-being mentally impaired -being in a coma or sleeping |
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If you are convicted of a sex crime in the state of Michigan, you will be on the sex offender registry for ___ years
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25
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What does the 1996 drug induced rape prevention and punishment Act say
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-It makes it a felony to give an unsuspecting person a date rape drug, with the intent to commit violence
-Large fines -can put someone in prison for up to 20 years |
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Sexual harassment, penalty is $500 fine and/or up to 2 years in prison
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4th degree
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date rape situation -penetration, with coercion, 15 years
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3rd degree
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Penetration, with a weapon, coercion, additional felony involved, penalty is ife in prison
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1st degree
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Molestation, child pornography, contact, no penetration, 15 years
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2nd degree
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A person can be charged with criminal sexual conduct if there wasn't sexual intercourse. Oral sex counts as penetration
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true
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Females cannot be charged with statutory rape
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false
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date rape drugs typically cannot be detected in blood or urine tests(they can but the person needs to be tested right away and most are not)
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true
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because of the 1996 drug induced rape prevention and punishment act, the use of date rape drugs is declining
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false
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forcing someone to have sex is ok if they are dressed inappropriately or have a bad reputation
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false
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rape is never a consequence
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true
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a person can not be convicted of csc if both people were drinking
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false
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the use of coercion techniques to get another to engage in sexual activity is illegal
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true
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The most dangerous time for a woman involved in a domestic violence relationship is when she tries to leave
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true
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abusers often have low self-esteem
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true
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violence can take on may forms and can happen many times or only once in awhile
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true
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