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12 Cards in this Set
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Attributions During Conflict
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1. more active during conflict
2. Benign view of own stance (our side is good and we have excuses for our own bad behavior) 3. attributional conflict may arise, conflict over motives WHY they did it, not what they did |
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Demand/ Withdrawal Patterns
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one partner apporaches the other about a problem
60% women demand/men withdraw 40% men demand/ women withdraw 10% Equal response We demand or withdraw because of CONFLICT-STRUCTURE HYPOTHESIS: one partner's goals involve cooperation from the other |
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Response Categories: How one gets around Demand/Withdraw Patterns
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exit: actively destructive (threats, hitting)
voice: consttuctively discussing or addressing a problem loyalty: waiting for conditions to imporvoe, defending partner neglect: avoiding critical issues, nagging partner |
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Violence in Relationships
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Violence – an act carried out with the intention of, or an act perceived as having the intention of, physically hurting another person.
Conflict tactics scale ranges from 1: threw something To 8: used gun or knife |
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Avoideing Fights
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tend to not have specific strategies for resolving conflicts, hoping that with the passage of time, thinkgs will work out.
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Conflict wiht Age
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*adolescence is a time of marked parent-child conflict, declines with age.
*Conflict in mid-adolescnnce is more heated than it is in earler adolescnece. |
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Types of Conflict
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Volatiles
Validators Avoiders Hostiles |
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Volatilese
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extreme expressiveness and involvement
begin conflict discussions by trying to persuade one another |
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Validators
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calmer more relaxed discussions in which they arppear to be working together on a problem
take stock at the beginning of their discussions before trying to persuade one antoher |
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Avoiders
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tend to not have specific strategies for resolving conflicts, hope things will be solved with the passage of time
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Hostiles
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discussions are marked by negativity engage in behaviors such as criticism, contempt, defensiveness, withdrawal and flooding
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Who Uses Violence? With what effects?
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occurs across generations <parents and children> along within generations <spouses as well as siblings>
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