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Soulmates
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Fiction and illusion; and while every young man and young woman will seek with all diligence and prayerfulness to find a mate with whom life can be most compatible and beautiful, yet it is certain that almost any good man and any good woman can have happiness and a successful marriage if both are willing to pay the price.”
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Formula for eternal marriage
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First, there must be the proper approach toward marriage, which contemplates the selection of a spouse who reaches as nearly as possible the pinnacle of perfection in all the matters which are of importance to the individuals. And then those two parties must come to the altar in the temple realizing that they must work hard toward this successful joint living
Second, there must be a great unselfishness, forgetting self and directing all …to the good of the family, Third, there must be continued courting and expressions of affection, kindness, and consideration to keep love alive and growing. Fourth, there must be a complete living of the commandments of the Lord as defined in the gospel of Jesus Christ.” |
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Unrealistic expectations
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Soulmate = Perfect, No compromises
Soulmate = Without effort or change Soulmate = Know end from beginning |
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Dating paralysis
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Finding is hard, “needle in a haystack”
Fear of making a mistake Pass up on promising opportunities |
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Dating Rush
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Rapid courtship -
Lack of careful consideration and personal decision |
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Eight Traps of Soulmate Thinking
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1) The “Love at First Sight” Trap
2) The “Old Boyfriend” Trap 3) The “One to One Match” Trap 4) The “I Can’t Leave Him” Trap 5) The “Signs Are Lining Up” Trap 6) The “We Felt the Spirit Together” Trap 7) The “Love Doesn’t Involve Compromises” Trap 8) The “Our Love is Guaranteed” Trap |
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Perfection
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Since you won’t find perfection in your partner, and your partner won’t find it in you, your only chance at perfection is in creating perfection together.”
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