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50 Cards in this Set
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woman desire emotional influence and connection from relationships |
men desire respect and admiration |
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what is the basis of getting out needs met in marriage |
God is the basis |
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differences in temperament are present at which stage of life |
birth |
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temperamental differences |
influences how children behave toward individuals and objectives in their environment |
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3 primary differences that lead to difficulty in relationships |
background, gender, and personality |
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temperament refers to the_____ of behavior rather than the what and _____ |
how, why |
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how do you express love to God? |
listen to God's voice, hold fast to God, obey God's commands and teachings |
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relatedness |
the psychological need to establish close emotional bonds and attachments with other people |
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what is necessary to loving others well? |
being honest with ourselves and others |
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reasons we have difficulty in relationships |
we create a fantasy person in our minds, we want to be the fantasy person for the other person, we act like we have it all together |
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what environmental factors and background can influence your personality |
culture, birth order, family values, trauma, major events |
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moral structures that can influence your character |
choices, relationships, church life, family values, relationship with God |
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when someone deals with a lack of relatedness what can it lead to? |
loneliness and depression |
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deep longings |
an intense desire that cannot be dismissed as an emotional reaction to a circumstance |
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evaluative thinking |
both God and man think and they arrive at conclusions that determine their intentions |
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active choosing |
both God and man can choose particular goals to pursue, and they can choose specific actions designed to reach those goals |
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emotional experiencing |
John 11 Jesus felt sad when his friend Lazarus died, and John 2 Jesus was angry with the moneychangers |
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with regard to personality development, temperament refers to _______ |
the how of behavior |
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temperamental differences |
they are present at birth, they influence how environments impact children, they influence how children behave toward individuals and objects in their environment |
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easy babys |
normal sleeping and eating patterns, adapts well to new situations, generally in a good mood |
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slow to warm up babys |
adjust to new situations over time |
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character based |
moral structure that influences many facets of our lives |
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John 14, loving God is |
obedience |
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soft startup |
a key to effective problem solving is the ability to make a complaint properly |
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primary differences that lead to difficulty in relationships |
personality, gender, background |
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an important key in having relationship |
to accept responsibility and realize that we make mistakes too |
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communal relationships can meet what needs? |
monitor and track each others needs, provide help when the other is distressed, resist keeping score in the relationship |
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adaptability |
refers to how long it takes a child to adjust to change over time |
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loneliness |
the result of a lack of close intimate relationship |
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satisfying relatedness leads to... |
vitality and well being |
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exhange realtionships |
business |
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John 13, Jesus' example to us |
washing the disciples feet |
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love |
shows the world that we are Jesus' disciples |
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personality |
made up of temperament, background, personality |
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character |
a moral structure that influences choices, relationships, church life, family values, and other aspects of a person |
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intensity |
refers to the energy level of a positive and negative response |
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distractibility |
refers to the child's length of time on a tack and the ability to stay with the task through frustration |
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central task of leadership |
influencing God's people for God's purpose |
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3 ways leaders gain influence |
position, power, personality |
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most important thing a man can do when he is in conflict with a woman |
accept her influence |
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extraversion |
acts and then (maybe) reflects |
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sensing vs. intuitive |
parts and pieces vs. patterns and relationships |
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judging |
a lifestyle is decisive, planned, and orderly |
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lack of impact |
why men find it hard to fail |
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personality |
the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual's distinctive character |
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31% |
percentage of all problems can be solved in a marriage |
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a love relationship with God is.... |
real and personal |
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God speaks through.... |
Bible, prayer, circumstances |
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stress response |
epinephrine and glucocoricoids are the backbones |
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reward for obeying God |
God reveling Himself to you |
