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12 Cards in this Set
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Erikson
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-Intimacy vs. Isolation.
-Work/career -Sociability,marriage,family -Talk things over, confess what one feels like, discuss plans, wishes, and expectations. *Deeper than adolescent attachment |
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Isolation
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-Distantiation= the readiness to repudiate and isolate.
-Becomes combative and competitive. -Unableto form meaningful relationships the person isolates themselves from others. -Shows up in work as well as social life. -Really important that that person navigated the last stage successfully. |
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Physical Performance
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-Thinks about health care.
-Watches weight |
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Attraction and Marriage
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-Matching hypothesis
-Similar to us in attitudes, beliefs,physical attraction. -Be realistic when it comes to marriage(make sure you are on the same page) -Cohabitaion= good or bad? -Divorce- usually early durin first re-evaluation period. (late 20's early 30's) -Problem for adults and children. |
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Attraction
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The force that draws two people together.
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Reward/Cost theory
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How can I get the most for the least amount of effort.
-Proximity = we tend to like people that are close to us as it is eary to maintain a relationship. (Why we value long distance relationships) |
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Gain Loss Theory
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Like-Like (+)
Dislike-Like (+) Like-Dislike (-) Dislike-Dislike |
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Physical Attributes
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Court cases--helps with misdemeanors and just make sure you don't use your beauty.
Blind date ex:=more apt to call again. Picture evaluations = more attractive = more successful,happier. School children = referral same but picture of attractive or less attractive child-less attractive=trouble makers-attractive=bad day. |
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What is attractive?
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Men=broad shoulders (provision/protection)
Women WHR= Waist to hip ratio 7:10 (healthy) Eyes-chin,cheeks=baby College experiement: Men = women can be heavier than women think they can be (women see themselves as heavy) Women = Men could lose a bit (men see themselves as perfect) Both = smile. Liking = highest factor in liking as it reinforces our need to right and acceptable. Same goes for similiarity Coversion = if I can covert you I must be really right and I like you because you understand that. People who you have a negative interactions but they still like you. |
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Competency
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We like or find peopl attractive that are competent.
Experiment:1.)Competent Person, 2.)Competent person with a flaw 3.) Mediocre 4.) Mediocre w/a flaw. What is most appealing?: 1 = Competent w/flaw,2 = Competent 3= Mediocre 4= mediocre w/ a flaw. |
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Competency Later Results
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Women found the perfect person (male) to be most attractive. (Competent)
Men with reasonable self-esteem found the one with the flaw most attractive. |
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The Pratfull Effect
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Men w/ low self-esteem found the perfect man most attractive. (Competition)
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