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10 Cards in this Set
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Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
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1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.
2. Give honest and sincere appreciation. 3. Arouse in the other person an eager want. |
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Six Ways to Make People Like You
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1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
2. Smile. 3. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. 4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. 5. Talk in terms of the other person's interest. 6. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely. |
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Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking: 1st Four
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-The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
-Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say "You're Wrong." -If you're wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically. -Begin in a friendly way. |
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Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking: 2nd Four
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-Start with questions that get the other person saying "yes, yes!" immediately.
-Let the other person do a great deal of the talking. -Let the other person feel the idea is his or hers. -Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view. |
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Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking: 3rd Four
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-Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
-Appeal to the nobler motives. -Dramatize your ideas. -Throw down a challenge. |
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Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment: 1st 5 of 9
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-Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
-Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly. -Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person. -Ask questions instead of giving direct orders. -Let the other person save face. |
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Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment: last 4 of 9
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-Praise every improvement.
-Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to. -Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct. -Make the other person happy about doing what you suggest. |
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Seven Rules For Making Your Home Life Happier
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1. Don't nag.
2. Don't try to make your partner over. 3. Don't criticize. 4. Give honest appreciation. 5. Pay little attentions. 6. Be courteous. 7. Read a good book on the sexual side of marriage. |
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what is the most important principle?
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Always make the other person feel important.
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what is a core idea in Dale Carnegie's books?
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That it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's reaction to them.
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