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40 Cards in this Set
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liking
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feeling of affection and respect
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loving
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deeper and intense.
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3 components of love:
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Intimacy, caring, attachment
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Intimacy
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a component of love. A feeling of closeness
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Caring
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a component of love, concern you have for you and your partner
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attachment
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component of love. longing to be in your partners presence.
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Passionate Love
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state of intense emotional and physical longing
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5 factors of passionate love
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driven, all cultures experience passionate love, no gender or age differences exist, adult passionate love is linked to sex, negatively related to relationship duration.
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Companionate Love
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is an intense ofrm of liking defined by emotional investment and deeply intertwined lives.
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Types of Love
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Storge: friendly lovers
Agape: Forgiving Lovers Mania: Obsessive Lovers Pragma: Practical Lovers Ludus: Game playing lovers Eros: Romantic Lovers |
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Romantic relationship
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a chosen interpersonal involvement forged through communication in which the participants perceive the bond as romantic
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5 elements of a romantic relationship:
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Perception, Diversity, Choice, Tensions, Communication
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Perception
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A romantic relationship exists whenever two partners perceive it does.
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Diversity
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exhibit remarkable diversity in the ages and genders ofthe partners as well as in their ethnic and religious backgrounds.
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Choice
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We enter into romantic relationships through choice.
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Tensions
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close relationships are a dynamic knot of contradictions.
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Relational Dialectics
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opposing tensions between ourselves and our eelings toward other that exist in interpersonal relationships.
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Openness vs Protection
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the exchange of information. How must to share with our lovers
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Autonomy vs. Connection
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Dissolve identity into our partners or reclaim our autonomy.
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novelty vs. predictability
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stability vs excitement and change. We like security but predictability spawns boredom.
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Communication
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all romantic relationships are forged through communication.
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Mere exposure effect
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a phenomenon where you feel more attracted to those with whom you have frequent contact and less attracted to those whom you interact rarely.
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beautiful is good effect
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a tendency for physical attractiveness to create the perception of competency and intelligence.
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matching:
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a tendency to be more attracted to others whom we perceive to be at our own level of attractiveness
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birds of a feather effect
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attracted to others we perceive to have similar levels of attractiveness, values, and interests.
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Social Exchange Theory
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feel drawn to those that you see as offering substantial benefits with few associated costs.
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equity
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the balance of benefits and costs exchanged by you and a romantic partner. It will determine whether the relationship takes root.
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1st stage of coming together
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Initiating: determine whether you find them attractive, appropriate greeting.
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2nd stage of coming together
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Experimenting: exchange demographic information, small talk.
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3rd stage of Coming together
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Intensifying: begin to reveal withheld informations. saying we more frequently, more time together
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Communication
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all romantic relationships are forged through communication.
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Mere exposure effect
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a phenomenon where you feel more attracted to those with whom you have frequent contact and less attracted to those whom you interact rarely.
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beautiful is good effect
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a tendency for physical attractiveness to create the perception of competency and intelligence.
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matching:
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a tendency to be more attracted to others whom we perceive to be at our own level of attractiveness
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birds of a feather effect
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attracted to others we perceive to have similar levels of attractiveness, values, and interests.
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Social Exchange Theory
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feel drawn to those that you see as offering substantial benefits with few associated costs.
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equity
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the balance of benefits and costs exchanged by you and a romantic partner. It will determine whether the relationship takes root.
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1st stage of coming together
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Initiating: determine whether you find them attractive, appropriate greeting.
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2nd stage of coming together
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Experimenting: exchange demographic information, small talk.
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3rd stage of Coming together
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Intensifying: begin to reveal withheld informations. saying we more frequently, more time together
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