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17 Cards in this Set
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William Glasser believed students in school were learning a "______ _______" because lower scorers in 1st grade tended to stay that way
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failure identity
also, these students do not tend to find socially acceptable outlets for the negative feelings associated with their poor performance |
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In Glasser's school
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1. the classes set the rules (in a process guided by the teacher) - Guided Group Interaction
2. A necessary precondition for learning is the social contract established by the class responsibility is the primary issue between the individual and society (social context) |
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__________ are the result of choices we've made in our lives
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Symptoms
we can choose to think, feel, and behave differently |
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Emphasis is on personal __________
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responsibility
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Therapist's function is to keep therapy
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focused on the patient
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We often mistakenly choose ______ in our best attempt to meet our needs
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misery
maybe we don't know we're choosing misery because it comes later understand that your behaviors have an outcome |
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We act responsibly when
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we meet our needs without keeping others from meeting their needs
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All internally motivated behavior is geared toward meeting one or more of our 5 encoded needs:
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Survival (Physiological)
Love and Belonging Power or Achievement Freedom or Independence Fun |
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Our brain functions as a ______ _______ to get us what we want and monitors our _______ to see if we are achieving these needs
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control system, feelings
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Our _____ ________ consists of our visions of specific people, activities, events, beliefs, and situations that will fulfill our needs
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quality world
youth will find either social acceptable/unacceptable to meet these needs |
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Our best attempts to satisfy our needs
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doing - active behaviors
thinking - thoughts, self-statements feeligns - anger, joy, pain, anxiety physiology - bodily reactions |
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The 3 "R's"
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Reality - this happens within a specific social context
Responsibility - for getting needs met within the "social contract" Right and Wrong Thinking - making value judgments |
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8 steps/issues in counseling
key: it is the client's responsibility to get their needs met! |
1) Counseling is personal (not just rational) – the client needs to know you care
2) Focus on behaviors, not feelings * Feelings take us from personal responsibility * Feelings never provide a reason for irresponsibility 3) Focus on present, not the past 4) Make value judgments (“Who might be helped by this decision and who might be hurt?”) 5) Make a plan – to meet needs in a responsible way 6) Elicit commitment – the client has to own it 7) No excuses 8) No punishment |
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Procedures that lead to change: the "WDEP" system
applies reality counseling principles to individuals, groups, and organizations |
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wants, needs, and perceptions what do you want to be and do? your "picture album" (if you could envision an album with your ideal life, what does it look like? who are you, what do you do, how do you want things to play out?) D: Doing and Direction examining one's total behavior: feelings, effective or ineffective self-talk, and especially their actions. what are you doing? where do you want to go? E: Evaluation sometimes uncomfortable self-evaluation. does you present behavior have a reasonable chance of getting you what you want? P: Planning specific and attainable positive plans for improvement (SAMIC) |
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Planning for change (SAMIC)
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Simple A Attainable M Measurable I Immediate and involved C Controlled can you do this by yourself or will you be dependent on others? can you do this continuously? |
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Group therapy
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leaders and members jointly determine goals and plans of action
members explore new course of behavior that will bring them closer to what they want out of life leaders challenge group members to evaluate for themselves if what they are currently doing is working for them feedback from leaders and group members can help individuals design realistic and attainable plans group setting encourages members to take an active stance in attaining change in their lives |
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Limitations
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minimal mention of insight, the unconscious, dreams and transference
trouble viewing serious mental illness as behavioral choice (risk lack of sensitivity) danger for therapist imposing his or her personal views on clients by defining responsible behavior often construed as simple and easy to master, but really requires much training to implement properly more empirical support is needed (good with personality disorders, but need more evidence for other disorders) |