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28 Cards in this Set
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Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love
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commitment, passion, intimacy
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Consummate Love
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commitment
passion intimacy |
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Companionate Love
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commitment
intimacy |
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Fatuous Love
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commitment
passion |
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Romantic Love
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Intimacy
passion |
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Empty Love
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commitment
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Infatuation
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passion
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liking
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intimacy
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nonlove
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none
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Contrasting liking with passionate love
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role of fantasy is key distinction
rewards are expected |
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Liking=
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affection and respect
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Love=
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attachment, caring, and intimacy
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Friendship
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enjoyment
acceptance trust respect mutual assistance confiding understanding spontaneity |
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passion
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fascination
exclusiveness sexual desire |
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caring
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giving the utmost
champion/advocate |
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Characteristics of an intimate/close relationship
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1)spend time together
2) mutually influence each other 3) get positive feelings from the relationship 4) know and understand each other 5) want the relationship to continue |
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Personality and Early experiences
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we bring to our relationships our own unique experiences and behavioral orientations or personalities
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Situational and Development Factors
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circumstances can facilitate or inhibit intimate relationships
ex: people who work together develop relationship |
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Cultural guidelines
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every culture has its norms and guidelines in which we structure our perceptions and behaviors
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Emotional Arousal and Labeling
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our body chemistry works with social factors, esp psychological
Once we label a relationship as emotional, it'll affect our expectations, etc |
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Self-Fulfillment
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based on assumption that the more our needs are fulfilled, the greater will be our feelings of intimacy.
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Affection Needs
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one's need for affection is a minimal and basic requirement for intimacy, overlaps with a sense of belonging
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Self-Esteem Needs
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recognizing and dealing with ways in which self-respect, recognition, appreciation, and status can be communicated
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Security Needs
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a psychological security as well: derived from the absense of threat, presence of ego-supportive communications, and a healthy amount of predictiveness
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Freedom Needs
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how much exclusivity the developing relationship demands
self fulfillment can only occur when each partner does not feel too limited or restrained by the relationship |
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Equality Needs
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may be a need to be superior to your partner in some things, subordinate in others, and equal in others
involvement with the relationship |
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Self Surrender
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deals with giving
extent to which one is willing to give another person is reflexive of the degree of intimacy they feel |
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Commitment to a Joint Identity
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demonstrating an ongoing commitment to the relationship, being faithful, etc
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