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Erik Erikson on Socioemotional Development

Life presents us with tasks/challenges


Positive vs Negative pole


Favorable Ratio


don't want to shelter child


greater pull toward the positive


leads to development of life virtue


Epigenetic Principle


one stage in life affects the other stages



Trust vs Mistrust Stage

Trust


care is predictable and consistent


virtue of hope


secure relationships


perseverance


Too much Trust


naive and gullible


Mistrust


care and attention is not consistent


Too much Mistrust


withdrawal, depression, paranoia



Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt Stage

Autonomy


child learns they can make things happen


virtue of will


pride and confidence


Too much Autonomy


impulsiveness


Shame


kid is punished harshly for accidents


Doubt


kid is overprotective


Too much Shame and Doubt


compulsiveness


everything must be done to perfection


Initiative vs Guilt Stage

Initiative


kid is encouraged to have ideas and voice


virtue of purpose


Too much Initiative


ruthlessness


don't care who they step on


Guilt


kid is put down for their idea


critical parents


Too much Guilt


inhibition


afraid to have an opinion

Industry vs Inferiority Stage

Industry


production


kid is encouraged to produce/create things


virtue of competence


feel able to perform tasks


feel successful


Too much Industry


narrow virtuosity


kid is not allowed to be a child


child actors, athletes, musicians


Inferiority


kid is told they cannot do things correctly


Too much Inferiority


inertia


do nothing


totally give up


Identity vs Confusion Stage

Identity


major, career, religion


sexual orientation, personality


synthesis of people you admire


comes from exploration


flexible


secure


virtue of fidelity


Too much Identity


fanaticism


faithful in your beliefs


Confusion


not knowing who you are or what you want


can be a good thing


Negative Identity


anger, turn to drugs, crime, gangs


feel they can't contribute to society

Intimacy vs Isolation Stage

Intimacy


feel you can emotionally open up to someone


finding yourself, yet losing yourself in another


virtue of love


Isolation


emotional withdrawal


can be healthy to a point


Too much Isolation


exclusion


isolate from all love


can't sustain relationships

Generativity vs Stagnation

Generativity


feeling of contribution to future goals


passing ideas, religion, skills


virtue of contentment


feel satisfied with your life


Too much Generativity


overextension


don't relax


have too much to give


Stagnation


feel you did nothing with your life


feel stuck in a job, marriage, life role


Too much Stagnation


rejectivity


stop caring about others


bitterness towards life and others

Integrity vs Despair Stage

Integrity


feeling satisfied with life


understanding there is order in one's life


see life's mistakes as inevitable


virtue of wisdom


Too much Integrity


presumption


focus on things they did right


not things they did wrong


Despair


feeling regret for what cannot be changed


Too much Despair


destain


disgusted at everything


negative view on life and death



Diana Baumrind and Parenting Styles

four styles of parenting




based on two parents with the same style




can have a mixed approach

Authoritarian Parenting Style

high demandingness




low responsiveness




require obedience without compromise




focus on what child is doing wrong




parent believes order is best way to raise kids

Authoritative Parenting Style

high demandingness




high responsiveness




negotiate and compromise rules




encourage dialouge

Indulgent Parenting Style

low demandingness




high responsiveness




few clean expectations of child




focus on "unconditional love" and freedoms



Indifferent Parenting Style

low demandingness




low responsiveness




univolved

What parenting style has the most emotional problems?

Indifferent

Sibling Rivalry

competition in the family


we all


want our parent's approval


struggle to find place of significance


want to feel superior to others


have unique perceptions

Birth Order Theory and Alfred Alder

personality is shaped by:


parent's attitude


gender roles


if you have siblings


age difference between you and your sibs

Only Child

gets all the adult attention




may become rival of other parent




may be spoiled to over protected




likes being center of attention




prefer adult company

Eldest Child

told to set an example for siblings




need for perfection




conservative




achievement oriented




need for power and affirmation




protector

Middle Child

rebel




competitive




need to prove themselves better than older child




more flexible and diplomatic

Youngest Child

others always took care of them




may become dependent and selfish




feels inferior to others




can have fun and entertain others

Twins

one is usually stronger or more active




parents may see one as older and mature




become a leader




can have identity problems

Ghost Child

child born after death of another child




overprotected




may rebel




can't live up to the idealized memory

Adopted Child

parents are so thankful, may spoil




child may resent biological parents

Parent-Adolescnt Conflict

usually over mundane issues


curfew, chores, dating


underneath is a serious issue not talked about


drugs, sex, feelings or rejection


minority of families experience high conflict


highest conflict with parents who:


have marital conflict


use manipulation, and guilt


prohibit teens


Lowest Conflict Families


authoritative

Conflict Perceptions

teens view conflict as a way of:


blowing off steam


individuating themselves


making statements about personal choices


parents view conflict as:


reaction of their values


"losing the child"


indiction of their failures as a parent


tend to give more meaning to the conflict

Cycle of Mutual Distancing

teens appear awkward


parent becomes frustrated and withdraws




Parents need to understand:


teen is not rejecting them


venting is a form of displacement


importance of staying involved

TYeens and Divorce

parenting styles change


initially custodial turns to authoritarian


non-custodial parent turns to indulgent


Preoperational (Preschool)


more overt reactions


tend to blame themselves


Concrete Operational


loyalty issues


Formal Operations (teens)


isolate themselves

Parental Adjustment to Divorce

depressed/angry parent=kid will have problems


allow kids to see and express emotion BUT:


keep adult issues with adults


don't draw kids into fighting


adults need other adults for emotional support

Consistency with divorce

easier if kid stays in same house and school




hardest if happens during transitional period

Remarriage

reconstructed family


younger children


more accepting of step parent


teens


more difficult time with remarriage


girls


harder time accepting step parent

Adjustment Factors of Remarriage

biological parents' reaction


if show hate for ex's new spouse


kids may not accept step parent out of fear of betrayal

Step-Family Structure

more complex the family = the more difficult




need to create new traditions

Step Parent's Approach

kids will resist authoritarian approach




need to earn child's trust and respect

Child Abuse

any act or failure to act to a child under 18


non-accidental serious physical injury


bruises, broken bones, cuts, burns


shaking, biting, throwing, kicking, slapping


non-accidental mental injury


anxiety, depression, withdrawal


sexual abuse and/or exploitation


serious physical neglect


prolonged or repeated lack of supervision


inadequate medical care


leave child under care of sex offender


exposure to meth lab



Permissive Reporter (Child Abuse)

anyone who see abuse is encouraged to report

Mandated Reporter (Child Abuse)

applies to anyone who works with children


volunteers, babysitters, foster parent, clergy


must report any "suspected" abuse for:


1. victim under 18 years


even if it comes from another person


2. perpetrator


person who commits crime against minors


age 14+


if you see it or if person tells you


parents


must report to childline


failure to report:


criminal liability


licensing board may revoke license

County Agent and/or Police Must:

ensure the safety of child immediately


see the child within 48 hours of report


contact parents within 24 hours of report


report to judge who makes final decision


if abuse is suspected all kids under 18 removed


consider options for placement


preference for placement = other family membs

James Marcia and Identity Statuses

4 identity statuses


crisis


dilemma with a need for exploration


commitment


personal investment

Identity Moratorium

"a suspicion of action"


"time out"


crisis


no commitment


to put off making a final decision


example: undeclared major


some tens try different personalities

Identity Foreclosure

to prevent or block from exploring options


no crisis


goes right into commitment


example: military, family business, marriage

Identity Diffusion

no crisis


no commitment


example: no interest in dating, politics, career

Identity Achievement

crisis


commitment


finding someone to marry


declaring a major

MAMA Cycle

moratorium - achievement

Ethnic Identity

feelings about the symbols, values and history of cultural background


Preschoolers


ethnically unaware


Elementary School


ethnically ambivalent


don't play importance of background


Adolescence


ethical awareness


think about meaning behind group terms


more aware of stereotypes

Helms-Phinney's Ethnic Identity

Pre-Encounter Stage


assimilated identity


blend in with dominant culture


minimizing culture of origin


"American"


Encounter Stage


aware that not all cultures value dominant


confront ethnic ID


Alternating Stage


bicultural identity


move back and forth between 2 cultural IDs


teens felt more "ethnic"


Immersion Stage


separation anxiety


reject dominate culture


exclusively focus on culture of origin


guilt for "selling out"


anger at dominate culture


felt distant


Emersion Stage


uncomfortable with separation ID


teens rationalized emotional conflict


engaged in discussions


Internalization Stage


blended biculturalism


strong ID with both dominate

School Identity

everyone wants to fit in


Top Dog Phenomenon


go from oldest to youngest


need to encourage clubs, sports, friendships

Clique

small group of 3-12


hang out together


feel they know each other well


begins in elementary


peaks at 6th grade

Crowds

large impersonal group based on reputation


jocks


druggies


nerds


populars


band nerds


goth


emo


boarders


scene kids


nobodies


normals


independents

Sociometric Status

popular


good social skills


leaders


athletic and attractive


accepted


not leaders


smart, outgoing


majority of kids


ambiguous


average


have friends


normal


neglected


not disliked


quiet, good students


not social


controversial


liked and disliked


class clown


rejected


disliked by all


suspicious


paranoid


make up stories to impress

Cultivation Theory (Media Influence)

media shows a person's worldview


teen girls who watched soap operas


think teen moms have easy lives


Mean World Syndrome


more tv = more likely to think world is danger

Social Learning Theory (Media Influence)

more likely to imitate what they see in media


heavy exposure to sex on tv


violent video games do not cause aggression


teens with depression and anxiety:


had preference of violent games


Cathartic Effect


healthy outlet for anger and stress

Media Practice Model (Media Influence)

teen individual differences


depends on 3 things:


1. selection


differ in preference


not all teens like violent media


pay attention to media that matches


2. interaction


not all teens react the same


depends on how they feel about it


3. application


how much they use it


use music/FB to cope with feelings


to make a statement


sensation seeking

Physical Aggression

hitting, stealing, shoving


poking, throwing


weapon at school


aggression = masculine


more common in boys


avoid if victim is strong

Verbal Aggression

name calling


teasing


giggling


sexual harassment


make fun of way person dresses/talks


boys and girls

Rational Aggression

sabotage relationships


gossip


social exclusion


girls

Passive Aggression

do "innocent" things to hurt people


"forget" to invite person


silent treatment


make faces behind back


girls

Cyber Aggression

cyberbullying


email, text message


blogs


obscene


racist


sexist


threatening

Bully Behavior

bully or victim can be anyone


why bully?


makes them feel powerful

Common Reasons for Bullying

1. Social Status


envy attention


2. Poor Academic Skills


strong predictor


jealous of teach attention


3. Retaliation


victim starts to bully


like the power


bully to prevent future attack


4. Social Identification


identify with a group


emotional bond


us vs them


prejudice unites


5. Self Preservation


join bully to avoid being target


bystander effect


6. Observational Learning


parents, teachers, coaches


7. Displacement


take anger out on others


parents, siblings, teachers

Interventions

should start in preschool


adults need to teach:


diversity and tolerance


self management


communication skills


The Speaker

prevent listener defensiveness


using "I" statements


address specific behavior


use a dirt sandwich


positive to bad news to positive again


how to give someone bad news


allow listener to respond

The Listener

stay quiet


listen


eye contact


paraphrase


validating speakers words

Advice for Victims of Bullying

tell someone


ignore/avoid the bully


agree with the bully's comments


be assertive and confident


get involved in clubs/groups


be an active bystander


Impulse Control Disorders

problems controlling emotions and behaviors


begin in childhood/adolescents

Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)

argue with authority


lose temper


instigate fights

Conduct Disorder

violates rights of others


destroy property, steal, fire setting

Intermittent Explosive Disorder

"ticking bombs"


verbal and physical aggression


out of proportion to stressor


no damage or injury


at least 2x a week for 3 months

Kleptomania

steal


not needed for personal use or value


not done out of anger or vengeance



Pyromania

deliberate fire setting


more than once


not done for:


monetary gain


political expression


hiding evidence