233 Development Across The Life Span Ch. 14

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the psychological timepiece that records the major milestones in people’s lives, was fairly uniform until the middle of the 20th century.

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SOCIAL CLOCK

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4 COMPONENTS OF HAPPINESS IN YOUNG ADULT

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1. INDEPENDENCE
2. COMPETENCE
3. SELF ESTEEM
4. RELATEDNESS

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EXAMPLES OF SOCIAL CLOCK MAJOR (BENCHWORKS IN LIFE)

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MARRIED IN THEIR 20'S
GRADUATE FROM COLLEGE
START A CAREER
WORKING TO PROVIDE FOR FAMILY

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ARE CULTURALLY DETERMINED ,
R REFLECTIONS OF SOCIETY THAT WE LIVE IN

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SOCIAL CLOCK THAT REPRESENT MILE STONES OR DEVLOPMENT OF STAGES IN YOUNG ADULT LIFE

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ERICKSON'S STAGE

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INTIMACY VERSUS ISOLATION

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GOAL OF INTIMACY VERSUS SIOLATION

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DEVLOP CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS

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PROBLEMS OF THOSE WHO EXPRIENCE DIFFICULTIES DURING THIS STATE ARE (3 THINGS)

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1. LONELY
2. ISOLATES
3. FEARFUL OF RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS

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WHY FAILURE IN YOUNG ADULT (INTMACY VERSUS ISOLATION)

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FAILURE TO DEVELOP A STRONG IDENTITY

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HOW ARE FRIENDSHIPS FORM:

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1. NEED TO BELONG
2. PROXIMITY
3. SIMILAR VALUES AND ATTITUDES
4. CHOOSE FRIENDS ON THE BASIS OF THER PERSONAL QUALITIES

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STIMULUS-VALUE ROLE (svr) THEORY

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is that
relationships proceed in a fixed order of three stages: stimulus, value, and role

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THEORISTS OF THE STIMULUS-VALUE ROLE THERORY

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BERNARD MURSTEIN'S

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3 STAGES OF (SVR) THEORY

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STIMULUS
VALUE
ROLE

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is when relationships are built on surface,
physical characteristics such as the way a person looks.

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STIMULUS STAGE

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characterized by increasing similarity of values and beliefs.

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VALUE STAGE

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is built on specific roles played by the participants
(e.g., boyfriend/girlfriend).

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ROLE STAGE

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WHAT DO YOU NEED TO DEVLOPE BEFORE INTAMACY WITH ANOTHER PERSON

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SENSE OF IDENTIY

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WHAT ATTRACTS YOUR ATTENTION TO THAT PERSON, IE CHARACTERISITIC APPEALING

CLOSTHES, SENSE OF HUMOR, CONVERSATION

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STIMULUS

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WHERE DO YOU LEARN ABOUT VALUES AND BELIEFS ABOUT ONE ANOTHER

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IN VALUE STAGE THUR SHARED ACTIVITIES

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WHERE DO YOU FIND SOMMITTED SOCIAL ROLES LIKE BF, GF, HUSBAND AND WIFE, MOM AND DAD

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IN THE ROLE STAGE OF SVR

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EXAMPLES OF PROMIXIMITY

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CHAT
EMAIL
AND PHONE

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EXAMPLES OF SIMILARITY

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SOCIAL CLASS
INTEREST
INTELLIGENCE

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ANOTHER WORD OF DATING:

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FRIENDSHIP
DATING
MATING

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THEORY OF THREE FACES OF LOVE

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ROBERT STERNBERG

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HYPOTHESIZES THAT LOVE IS MADE UP OF THREE COMPONENTS

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TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE

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3 COMPONENTS OF THE TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE

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INTIMACY COMPONENT
PASSION COMPONENT
DECISION/COMMITMENT COMPONENT

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encompasses feelings of closeness, affection, and
connectedness.

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INTIMACY COMPONENT

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comprises the motivational drives relating to sex,
physical closeness, and romance.

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b)The PASSION COMPONENT

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cognition that one loves another person and the longer-term determination to maintain that love.

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DECISSION COMMITMENT COMPONENT

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OCCURRS IN THE ABSENCE OF ALL THREE COMPONENTS

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NONLOVE

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DEVELOPS ONLY WHEN INTIMACY IS PRESENT

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LIKING

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EXISTS ONLY WHEN YOU FEEL PASSION

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INFATUATED LOVE

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IS WHEN ONLY DECISION AND COMMITMENT ARE PRESENT

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EMPTY LOVE

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OCCURS WHEN BOTH INTIMACY AND PASSION ARE PRESENT

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ROMANTIC

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INTIMACY AND DECISION COMMITMENT ARE PRESENT

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COMPANIONATE LOVE

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PASSION AND DECISION/COMMITMENT ARE PRESENT

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FATUOUS LOVE

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ALL THREE COMPONENTS ARE PRESENT

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CONSUMMATE LOVE

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WHAT HAPPENS TO PASSION IN A RELATIONSHIP

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TENDS TO PEAK EARLY THEN DECLINE AND THEN LEVEL OFF

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FEELS CLOSENESS AND AFFTECTION AND CONNECTED

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INTIMACY

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MOTIVATIN DRIVE, SEX, PHYSICAL CLOSENESS AND ROMANCE

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PASSION

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CONTINUES OVER TIME

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DECISION AND COMMITMENT

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SHARED FEELINGS AND EMOTIONAL CLOSENESS

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LOVE COMPANION OF A BEST FRIEND

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HEART RACES
FACE FLUSHES
INTENSE PHYSICAL DESIRE
THINK ABOUT THEM THE INTIRE TIME

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INFATUATED LOVE

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STALKER LOVE INTNENSE PASSION CELEBRITY

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FATIOUS LOVE

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DESIREABLE, COMPASSION FLLE GOOD POUR HEART S OUT

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ROMANTIC LOVE

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HONEYMOON STAGE INTIAMCY COMMITTMENT

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CONSUMNATED

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WHAT DECREASES FIRST

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PASSION AND INTAMCY INCREASES

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WOMEN WANT IN A MARRIAGE PARTNER

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AMBITIOUS AND INDUSTRIOUS

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MEN WANT IN A MARRIAGE PARTNER

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PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE

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WHAT DO PEOPL OFTEN MARRY ACCORDING TO WHAT

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PRINCIPLE OF HOMOGAMY

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or the tendency to marry someone who is similar in age, race, education, religion, and other basic demographic characteristics.

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HOMOGAMY

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is the tendency for men to marry women who are slightly younger, smaller, and lower in status, and for women to marry men who are slightly older, larger, and higher in status.

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MARRIAGE GRADIENT

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COUPLES LIVING TOGETHER WITHOUT BEING MARRIED

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COHABITATION

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a) A spouse provides security and financial well-being.
b) A spouse fills a sexual role.
c) A spouse can provide a sounding board and act as a partner for activities.
d) Marriage offers the only totally acceptable way to have children.
e) Fewer U.S. citizens are married than at any time since the 1890s.
(1) Higher divorce rate
(2) People are marrying later in life.
(a) The median age for first marriage in the U.S. is 27 for men and 25 for women.
f) 90% eventually wed

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MARRIAGE

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FOUR CHARACTERISTICS THAT MAKE MARRIAGE WORK

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VISIBLY SHOW AFFECTION
COMMUNICATION
SEES SELF AS AN INTERDEPENDENT COUPLE RATHER THATN TWO INDIVIDUALS
EXPERIENCES SOCIAL HOMOGAMY A SIMILARITY IN LEISURE ACTIVITY AND ROLE REFERNECES

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DIVORCE OCCURRS WITHIN

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THE FIRST 10 YEARS

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% OF MARRIAGES THAT REMAIN IN INTACT

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50%

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a) Pleasure watching them grow
b) Fulfillment from children's accomplishments
c) Enjoyment of forging a close bond
d) Someone to take care of them in their old age
e) Companionship
f) A strong societal norm — 90 % have a child

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REASONS FOR HAVING CHILDREN

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WHAT HAS HELP DECREASE THE NUMBER OF CHILDREN IN THE AVERAGE AMERICAN FAMILY

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CONTRACEPTIVES

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WHAT HAS DECLINE SINCE WW 11

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FERTITLITY RATE

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WHAT WERE WOMEN CONSIDERED FOR (NURSING)

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COMMUNAL PROFESSIONS OR OCCUPATIONS ASOCIATED WITH RELATIONSHIPS

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MEN BEST SUITED FOR ?

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OCCUPATIONS THAT ARE ASSOCIATED WITH GETTING THINGS ACCOMPLISHED OR AGENTIC PROFESSIONS

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motivation that drives people to obtain tangible rewards, such as money or prestige.

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EXTRINSIC MOTIVATION

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MOTIVATION THAT CAUSES PEOPLE TO WORK FOR THEIR OWN ENJOYMENT NOT FOR REWARDS WORK MAY BRING

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INTRINSIC MOTIVATION