I know I am ready because I got a job, at Dunkin Donuts, this summer and lasted more than five hours. I waited a year and a half to get another job because I knew it was the right time to finally get one. I am more comfortable with talking to strangers and I no longer think everyone is staring at me. I developed this mind frame because I realized I grew so dependent on having my brothers around, that I did not know how to be comfortable on my own. I wanted to be more sociable and less scared, so I socialized with other employees and learned how to carry a conversation with customers. I am now able to express when I need help ringing a certain order, instead of getting overwhelmed and giving up. Fortunately, I can take this experience and apply it elsewhere, too. In school, I have learned that I can speak up when I do not understand a task and ask for assistance from fellow classmates. I have become more patient with myself and am able to carry through with tasks that I set out to achieve. My future has been positively affected by an experience I took negatively.
Although the job only lasted for the summer, I mark it as an accomplished and improvement from where I was a year ago. I went from only being able to handle one five hour shift, to having five hour shifts four days a week. The experience of having a job has made me more a confident, independent person and has encouraged me to persevere even when I think the challenge is too difficult.