Growing up is a challenge that everyone has to go through. During childhood, kids learn little lessons from their parents, teachers, and siblings. During adolescence, teenagers will act like brats to get what they want. They have no regrets, and will do anything no matter the consequences. It is important to learn from your mistakes while growing up, because you become a better person in the future. Coming-of-age involves recognizing different perspectives. In Harper Lee’s To Kill a…
In creating my personal library, I’d include three books I’ve read recently: “The Alchemist,” by Paulo Coelho, “Divergent,” by Veronica Roth, and “A Tree Grows in Brooklyn,” by Betty Smith. Each appeals to me in different ways: one because of its message, another because of its literary style and genre and the last because of its character development. Together, though they deliver a powerful message I’d like my library readers to hear: develop strong morals while you journey through life,…
Different Ways We Raise Our Children”, discusses how immigrant parents raise their children in a Western society, as well as the struggles parents face to adjust to the new environment. Furthermore, the video discusses the challenges children of immigrant household face. The video brought up a lot of interesting points about culture and the ways parents choose to raise their children. Many immigrant parents were born and raised in traditional societies and are unaware of the Western culture and…
lives. While some of us have to dig deeper than others to reach these gender role biases, they are present in everyone and act as the underlying basis through which we color our everyday view of the world. Upon introspection, I began to realize that for me personally, the beliefs and the ideals concerning the role of each gender that surrounded me growing up truly helped mold the way in which I view gender today- specifically in regards to the balance of work and care in a family unit. My…
For my compassionate listening session analysis, I sat down and listened to my brother’s best friend, Daniel Parris. We sat down in a comfortable environment and simply had a free form conversation as opposed to a rigid interview-like sitting. We enjoyed sharing each others’ personal experiences and getting to know each other on a deeper level. I especially appreciated learning about another religion from an “insider” perspective. Attaining knowledge from a member of a certain religion through…
I felt as if I didn’t need to listen to my foster parents because they weren’t my real parents. They always tried to discipline me as a kid but it could never work, that’s when football came in. it was far more than hard work, dedication, and long days of being fatigue; there was a more valuable lesson behind football which was family, discipline, and hope. Growing up with foster parents was so hard because I felt that no one was ever there for me. While all this time that I thought they were…
Couples in My Culture While my parents gave me important values that I now carry with me in viewing relationship if I had to point at a relationship I would have to choose that of my maternal grandparents. Growing up I always looked up to them as one of the happiest couple I have laid eyes on. It was a love that radiated as soon as they walked through the door. While I grew up assuming that they were married, I found out that they were not later on during my adult years. This was a partnership…
The United States of America is known as the land of opportunity, “Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed, to me: I lift my lamp beside the golden door.” (Emma Lazarus). As the United States was built from immigrants looking for a better life and throughout the U.S history waves of immigrants from people that come from the same country or have religion for example the…
Don’t worry, Be happy The ability to reflect on a personal experience so it becomes a meaningful lesson in life has been the most difficult thing in my life to do successfully. The positive note is I’ve developed coping mechanisms and became versatile in situations so nothing results in a self destruct method of a solution to a personal problem. In the end, I just want a happy memory filled life with little to no regrets. This, I feel, is part of being human; I think many of us are constantly in…
was when my grandmother was forced to move to New York. I was in fifth grade at the time when my aunt came down and said she was taking my grandmother with her to provide better care for her. There were no emotions to describe what I was feeling that day. I didn't know what to do, and I had no input in the decision. Coping with my grandmother's absence was a really big challenge for me. The emotions I was feeling was unbearable. Angry, alone, furious were only a few that I could describe. My…