My mother was raised in an affectionate family with a father who was also in the Navy therefore, not home much. Very clichéd, her dad drank and had lady friends while out on tour. His frequent tours away from the family left Nydia, my maternal grandmother, lonely with three children. My grandmother and the kids would travel to Puerto Rico a lot to spend time with her family. Eventually being with family was not enough to get her out her slump and she grew depressed, later to be diagnosed as…