Acceptance

Grief and loss are unpreventable events that most people will experience at least once in their life (Howarth, 2011). Grief is typically associated with death. Nevertheless, grief and loss may be associated with the loss of a limb, loss of function, and so on. Healthcare providers will inevitably have patients and families that experience both. Some clients may have advanced warning that the loss will occur, which may make the grieving process somewhat easier. However, a sudden onset of a loss…

According to Kubler-Ross (2013), the grieving process is comprised of five formal stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally acceptance. The first stage, denial, actually enables the person to initially endure an incredible loss. While it may seem counterintuitive, denial is actually a critical aspect of the healthy healing process. It is comparable to entering a stage of shock. The act of denial actually is a protective mechanism that helps a person cope with the overwhelming…

Grief is an emotion we all experience in our life. Grief is the emotional response to the pain of a loss. It i s the reflection of a connection that has been broken.(Kubler& Ross 2005). Most important, grief is an emotional, spiritual, and psychological journey to healing. (Kessler & Kubler-Ross 2005). In our childhood we realize at some point we will die, and not only will we die but those around us will die someday too. This is the beginning of anticipatory grief, Fear of the unknown…

Corr and Corr (2012) define bereavement as an event characterized with the loss of someone close to an individual, and is often associated with psychological and emotional distress which manifest in the form of grief. (Corr and Corr (2012) indicate that the psychosocial and emotional changes that occur in case of bereavement follow a defined pattern that can be explained through multiple models: the Freudian model and Bowlby’s model, among others. In my case, the death of my grandmother had…

When a person is going through a tough situation, for example a time of loss or grief, not many other things are on his or her mind. They cannot help but to focus on the single thing that is consuming his or her thoughts, day in and day out, which is probably why they don't understand or realize that their feelings of grief are coming in many stages. In 1969, a Swiss author by the name of Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, came out with a book called On Death and Dying. This book had the first appearance of…

grief. The social worker and client made a team effort to make the “memory book”. There were a total of five pictures in the client’s book. The social worker invited the client to explain the significance of each picture. This is part of the acceptance…

Often people feel anticipatory grief when they know someone they care about is seriously ill. Anticipatory grief refers to the normal mourning that occurs when a patient or family is expecting a death. Anticipatory grief has many of the same symptoms as those experienced after a death has occurred. It includes all of the thinking, feeling, cultural, and social reactions to an expected death that are felt by the patient and family. It includes depression, extreme concern for the dying person,…

it is no longer there. It took her three times for her dog to give up on finding the snowball. But she did not completely give up as she “stopped once to look back” (11). In this poem, loss is demonstrated on how confusing it can be. Denial and acceptance are two of the stages of grief that a human goes through when trying to cope with a loss. Those two stages are shown in this poem. Denial was shown by the dog going “back to the center and started the circles again” (9) after looking at her…

The use of the term anticipatory grief began to be used in medicine in the 1940s in the United States (Lindemann, 1944). The earliest study is using the term anticipatory grief is as follows. Straker (1950) study is a case study of a man who had had depression beginning early in life. Anticipating his wife’s death exacerbated his depression and brought on an acute stage of depression. However, interestingly, after the actual death, he had not experienced further grief because the feeling of…

Whether one works in the field where death is occurring or one must experience it with family members, friends, or even pets, it is something that is inevitable. When death occurs there is a process of grieving that one shall go through, some may gain acceptance over the loss and others may continue to be depressed or still retain the anger in side resulting from the loss. All people grieve differently; some people will wear their emotion on their sleeve and be outwardly emotional while other…