When words were first printed, rather than spoken, it represented a monumental shift in the way we, as a species, communicate. No longer would communication be limited to the definite audience listening. The content of the message could be distributed again and again over long periods of time. The number of people a message could reach became indefinite. With recent advances in technology, specifically the development of the Internet, we find ourselves on the verge of a similar shift. With…
their partner. In occasions a simple misinterpretation of a response can make a person feel bad. Could it be that men and women express their words differently? Or does the communication style make men and women to decode the response differently? In what follows we will discuss the different ideas of the different communication styles given by Tannen in her book, metamesages, and the problem with glass ceiling. Tannen’s Ideas One of the most important ideas from Tannen’s chapter is asymmetry…
techniques of communication. One of those techniques is the process of effective communication. Effective communication means to find a way to connect with each other through different ways. This can mean verbal or nonverbal communication, active listening,keeping an open mind, learning to compromise and so on. Verbal communication is the being able to represent yourself through the words you say. That includes the amount of confidence you pack into your words. Nonverbal communication is…
For instance, many things that are put on the internet could affect someone 's life. There have been countless cases when teenagers commit suicide, because a classmate put something mean and deceitful online. The Internet could be a dangerous place for adolescents, because in our day and age, they have access to computers and cell phones at a very early age. Cyberbullying affects thousands of people, and sadly, many of them take their…
father is not the strongest. We are close in that I see him often, but we both do not have very strong communication skills. I believe our lack of communication negatively affects our relationship. I will first evaluate my relationship with my father for the positive elements of communication, equality and openness. Then, I will look for ways that I can resolve the issues I find in the communication on my end. My father holds to the belief that the parent is always right, no matter what. My…
Go for What Hurts,” Jonathan Franzen suggests that the relationship between technology and interpersonal relationships is all one-sided; either the technology wins out and you become a slave to an alternate reality, or you choose face-to-face communication without even thinking about checking your Facebook friend requests. A life dedicated to technology is a life dedicated to being likeable, about which Franzen points out that “if you dedicate your existence to being likable, however, and if you…
their life in this mainstream online communication, social media. It allows the world to be constantly and conveniently connected. The growing popularity of social media among the users affects personal and social behavior of human beings. Social media has lots of perks, but its unstable and uncontrollable side effects are ruining family relationship. These side effects include addiction that causes anti-social behavior, lack of socially verbal communication that makes people insensitively…
that computer “may increase the amount of communication and positive interaction between children.” The Muller and Perlmutter study (1985) focused on the subject, finding that children “participated in interactions with others during 63% of computer play versus 7% of puzzle play.” 3 The study therefore implies that the use of technology has actually greatly benefitted the interactions between its subjects—the only difference is the mode of communication that was used. The researchers of the…
In the article, “But What Do You Mean?”, author Deborah Tannen discusses what she has observed to be differences in ways that women and men communicate. She concludes by stating that neither communication style in incorrect, however, to alleviate miscommunication women and men should use language that is understood by both parties. While I do not disagree with Tannen’s observations, I find some flaws with her solution. As recent brain studies have shown, women and men are not significantly…
without proper communication with customers, employees, and business partners. With the help of manager, Haley Spreen, I have analyzed the messages, methods, and visuals of Get Gussied Up. Get Gussied Up and its employees focus on making sure they communicate to their different audiences properly. To do this, businesses must know how to adjust messages, methods, and visuals to specific audiences. Get Gussied Up’s different audiences require special forms of communication. Communication can…