always have to be front and center. A 4th grade class picture of 19 students, who back then I knew oh too well and pinky promised we would all be friends forever. I can only recall five names; knowing their name is not the problem…
who just turned fifteen. I have lived in the valley of San Fernando all my life in a small town called Van Nuys. In the valley there many diverse cultures but the one I have mainly seen all my life is Latin. I went to school where majority of the student population was Hispanic and small percentages of other ethnic groups. Although I have been raised in a Mexican household, I’ve come to learn that people from different regions are similar to one another. I was raised in the Roman Catholic…
mixed feeling of envy and admiration in which Gene feels for Finny. A true individual, Finny enjoys pure freedom, natural flow of energy that expresses itself in his athletic strength and grace. However, Gene fights various inner battles within his friendship, jealousy, guilt, and aggression. In the…
The Effects of Inclusion after Ostracism on Individuals’ Levels of Belonging, Control, Self-Esteem, and Meaningful Existence Ostracism, which is the act of being excluded and rejected in social settings, is a powerful aversive experience. There is a growing body of literature in this area that shows ostracism to produce a number of negative short- and long-term negative consequences toward an individual’s wellbeing. The temporal need-threat model by Williams (2001) specifically explained the…
world where groups are necessary to overcome challenges. This past summer I was able to experience this phenomenon that Ashcroft described when my friend and I went to Germany for two weeks and lived with Louisa Fortmann, a former foreign exchange student from the previous year. This “journey” demonstrated the varying levels of “Place,” Ashcroft’s word to describe the regions people consider home because of the shared connections. Not only was I leaving my family, the smallest group I identify…
have to learn to be responsible for their own decisions and actions. While there is almost always an inevitable “honeymoon phase” with the new found freedom, reality soon kicks in and one realizes they might not yet possess all the keys to success. Students fail tests, eat alone in the dining hall, and at some point all break down and have a good old cry. However, these events, which so many of us experience, are almost non- existent on social media. Instead, as one scrolls through their…
"Shadow." Likewise, in the bildungsroman A Separate Peace, author John Knowles depicts the common rivalry between young adolescents, and how they struggle to accept their identity and the relationship between their unconscious self. Gene, a Devon High student, becomes best friends with Finny and grows jealous of his ostensibly flawless friend, leading him to make a life-changing decision. He struggles to reach an inner balance between his “Persona” and “Shadow”, leading to the ultimate death of…
occasion, we chatted. The tension of awkwardness was always present. Nothing went back to the way that it used to be though. We shared friends but never had that relationship we once shared. We seemed to have nothing in common anymore, it was like the friendship we had once, was never there. During our junior year, changes in her leaped to my attention, but stubbornness caused me never to talk with her. It was like she was the same person on the outside, but the inside of her was not the same…
parents made me interact with adults. Now, I feel very confident around adults. It is said that, “Interpersonal relationships are formed in the context of social, cultural and other influences. The context can vary from family or kinship relations, friendship, marriage, relations with associates, work, clubs, neighborhoods, and places of worship.” Because of my upbringing I have formed many interpersonal relationships. This is a start regarding depth of understanding, but notice how the…
or, more likely, he just didn’t understand the magnitude of what he’d done. Naturally, Mary Elizabeth is devastated by what her, now ex, boyfriend just did, but it ends up being for the better as later in the book she meets a well spoken college student named Peter who she likes much more and finds herself intellectually challenged…