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Definitions of ____________ describe it in terms of one or several characteristics including deep emotional attachment, openness, self-disclosure, physical attraction and personal growth.
jealousy trust love self-esteem jealousy self-esteem love trust |
Love
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According to the ______________ point of view, love can only be understood as symbolic or a social construction that by itself has no intrinsic meaning.
social-constructionism wheel theory of love self-revelation limerence wheel theory of love social-constructionism limerence self-revelation |
social-constructionism
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According to Plato, ________________ is a selfless love, spontaneous and altruistic and requires nothing in return.
agape philos eros courtly love eros agape philos courtly love |
agape
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When love is selfish, with an emphasis on physical pleasure, it is known as
philos. agape. courtly love. eros. courtly love. philos. agape. eros. |
Eros
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Although not the same, the Christian idea of love emphasized aspects of
agape. philos. courtly love. eros. courtly love. philos. eros. agape. |
Agape
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_______________ combined chivalry and the idealization of women.
Eros Courtly love Agape Philos Eros Philos Courtly love Agape |
courtly love
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The experience of self-love or what some social scientists refer to as _____________ seems to be an important prerequisite for loving others.
gender identity an achieved status an ascribed status self-esteem self-esteem an ascribed status an achieved status gender identity |
self-esteem
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In Lee's proposed six basic styles of loving, ______________ is playful, nonpossessive, without a deep commitment or lasting emotional involvement.
storge agape ludus eros ludus eros agape storge |
Ludus
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According to Lee, _____________ is logical, sensible, and practical.
pragma ludus eros storge storge pragma eros ludus |
pragma
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According to Todd and Davis, love includes all the characteristics of friendship as well as two broad clusters of characteristics: a passion cluster and a caring cluster. The passion cluster includes __________, a preoccupation with each other and desire to be together all the time.
sexual desire giving the utmost fascination exclusiveness exclusiveness giving the utmost sexual desire fascination |
fascination
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According to the wheel theory of love, ease of communication leads to
fulfillment of personality needs. self-revelation. rapport. mutual dependence. self-revelation. mutual dependence. rapport. fulfillment of personality needs. |
self-revelation
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According to Sternberg's _________ , our love stories begin soon after birth as we start to form our ideas about love based on our individual personality, early socialization experiences, as well as popular culture descriptions of love.
Self-revelation theory love story theory Limerence theory wheel theory of love Self-revelation theory Limerence theory love story theory wheel theory of love |
love story theory
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According to Francesca Cancian, a(an) ______________ view of love validates both feminine and masculine styles of loving and considers both to be necessary parts of a good love relationship.
homophobic ethnographic androgynous a master status a master status androgynous homophobic ethnographic |
androgynous
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A number of scholars have identified the _______________ of Western society as an obstacle to same-sex love.
patriarchal structure gender role stereotyping ethnography master status ethnography gender role stereotyping patriarchal structure master status |
patriarchal structure
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Today, ______________ is increasingly seen as destructive and as a sign of some deficiency in the individual or the relationship.
infatuation jealousy limerence envy jealousy limerence infatuation envy |
jealousy
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T or F
The major difference between different loving relationships and romantic love is the element of eroticism. |
True
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T or F
Romantic love is unique to Western and modern cultures. |
False
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T or F
Today, romantic love is almost always linked to sex and marriage. |
True
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T or F
Today, romance, love, and sex are inseparably intertwined, and some people believe that the intimacy generated by one may actually enhance the other. |
True
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T or F
According to Lee, mania combines ludus and storge, and is characterized by obsession and possessiveness. |
False
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T or F
Agape is a style of love that combines eros and storge, and is selfless and giving, expecting nothing in return. |
True
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T or F
Infatuation involves a strong attraction to another person based on an idealized picture of that person. |
True
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T or F
Liking has been described by some writers as romantic love in its most simple form. |
False
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T or F
Dorothy Tennov developed the wheel theory of love. |
False
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T or F
According to social exchange theory, although people in love clearly care about each other, love is not totally altruistic. |
True
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T or F
Men are more romantic and give greater importance to the desire to fall in love than women do. |
True
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T or F
Women tend to fall in love more quickly and earlier in their relationships. |
False
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T or F
Lesbian and gay relationships are usually fleeting, uncommitted, and primarily sexual. |
False
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T or F
According to Rempel and Holmes, trust is one of the most important and necessary aspects of any close or intimate relationship. |
True
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Envy is the thoughts and feelings that emerge when an actual or desired relationship is believed to be threatened. |
False
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Intense feelings, emotions, and thoughts coupled with passion and erotic expression that one person directs toward another. (p. 93)
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romantic love
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The combination of eros and ludus. (p. 101)
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mania
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A group of physical, psychological, and behavioral traits that one finds attractive in a mate, which we carry around as an unconscious mental template. (p. 94)
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love map
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A. An immediate, powerful attraction to the physical appearance of another. (p.101
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eros
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A playful, nonpossesive, and challenging love, without a deep commitment or lasting emotional involvement. (p. 101)
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ludus
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A style of loving that is said to be unexciting and uneventful. (p. 101)
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storge
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The combination of ludus and storge. (p. 101)
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pragma
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The combination of eros and storge. (p. 101)
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agape
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A strong attraction to another person based on an idealized picture of that person. (p. 104)
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infatuation
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A more logical and rational relationship that is less emotional and possessive. (p. 104)
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liking
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A theory which proposes that love involves four major interpersonal processes. (p. 105)
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wheel theory of love
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A theory that describes and explains the extreme highs and lows that many people experience in their love relationships. (p. 108)
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limerence theory
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A type of love that includes a wide range of attitudes and behaviors with no gender role differentiation. (p. 111)
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androgynous
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The degree of confidence a person feels when he or she thinks about a relationship. (p. 117)
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trust
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The thoughts and feelings that emerge when an actual or desired relationship is believed to be threatened. (p.117)
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jealousy
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The unhappiness or discontent with ourselves that arises from the belief that something about ourselves does not measure up to someone else's level. (p. 117)
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envy
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