8 Stages Of Orgasm - Details

Front 1

What are the Characteristics of

Stage 1 - Climax?

Back 1

The Experience of Possession

• Possession (by something that feels larger and more powerful)

• Loss (of what you no longer need)

• Ignition of the involuntary

• An ending and a beginning

• Feelings trump facts

• Immersion/Messiness

• Gravity

• Power

Front 2

What are the Turned On

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 1 - Climax?

Back 2

Surrender

Being consumed, as if in the belly of thebeast, surrounded by a comfortable,blanketing darkness

Front 3

What are the Turned Off

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 1 - Climax?

Back 3

Torment

Drowning, intense discomfort andhopelessness, degradation, humiliation

Front 4

How to you move on from

Stage 1 - Climax?

Back 4

Occurs as hitting bottom, when you actually touch the pain that’s been motivatingyou

Front 5

What are the Characteristics of

Stage 2 - Resolution?

Back 5

The Experience of Recovery

• Recovery

• Forgiveness

• Relief

• Healing

• Slowness

• Simplicity

• Smallness

• Humility

• Grief

• Uncertainty about future

• Questioning the past

Front 6

What are the Turned On

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 2 - Resolution?

Back 6

Humble relief

Relief, smallness, humility,insubstantiality, having been washedout

Front 7

What are the Turned Off

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 2 - Resolution?

Back 7

Grief

Hopelessness, pointlessness, negativeemptiness, scarcity, narrowness ofvision, withdrawal, loneliness,victimization and physical rawness

Front 8

How to you move on from

Stage 2 - Resolution?

Back 8

You grieve for what was lost in climax, and let the lingering residue empty out fromyour system.

Front 9

What are the Characteristics of

Stage 3 - Restoration?

Back 9

The Experience of Pleasure

• Pleasure

• Stability

• Rest

• Relaxation

• Metabolization

• Nourishment

• Safety

• Establishment of Boundaries

• Connection

Front 10

What are the Turned On

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 3 - Restoration?

Back 10

Peace, Hedonism

One feels soothing happiness for havingfinally arrived at some peace

Front 11

What are the Turned Off

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 3 - Restoration?

Back 11

Complacency

Ok-ness, with an underlying boredom,numbness, grip and control and ademonization of Possession

Front 12

How to you move on from

Stage 3 - Restoration?

Back 12

You reconstruct your boundaries, feel and express genuine gratitude, and reviveyour appetite for life by experiencing pleasure.

Front 13

What are the Characteristics of

Stage 4 - Turn On?

Back 13

The Experience of Desire

• Desire

• Flow

• Attention and Inquiry

• Possibility

• Anticipation

• Risk taking

• Growing consciousness and roots

• Destabilization (of unnecessary boundaries)

Front 14

What are the Turned On

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 4 - Turn On?

Back 14

Excitement

• Possibility, horniness, excitement,anticipation, nervousness

• There is a feeling of turned onagitation that you can feelsomething just below the surfacebut cannot access it.

• It’s like Spring.

Front 15

What are the Turned Off

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 4 - Turn On?

Back 15

Anxiety, Irritability

• Unease and anxiety, like the ground isstarting to slip away

• Aggressive agitation as if you can feelsomething just below the surface butcannot control it

• A frustrating lack of power or abilityto maintain stability

Front 16

How to you move on from

Stage 4 - Turn On?

Back 16

You expand your receptive capacity and ability to handle increasing levels ofenergy in your body

Front 17

What are the Characteristics of

Stage 5 - Peaking?

Back 17

The Experience of Transition

• Phase transition

• Liminal state

• Meeting place of opposites

• Union of masculine and feminine, above and below

• Groundlessness

• Openness

• Wonder

• Flexibility

• Fading past, uncertain future

Front 18

What are the Turned On

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 5 - Peaking?

Back 18

Wonder

• Groundless, raw and receptive,rooted while highly expanded

• A feeling gravity of body while beinglifted to a higher state

Front 19

What are the Turned Off

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 5 - Peaking?

Back 19

Terror, Paranoia

• Disequalibriated, exposed andflailing

• A sense of completely losing yourmind and your known sense of reality

Front 20

How to you move on from

Stage 5 - Peaking?

Back 20

You address the unresolved issues that came up at the peak and reconcile yourfeminine and masculine halves. As a result, you unearth a deep, subterraneandesire to do and create something in the larger world—i.e., your purpose.

Front 21

What are the Characteristics of

Stage 6 - Excitement?

Back 21

The Experience of Purpose

• Purpose

• Responsibility

• Achievement

• Competence

• Confidence

• Creation

• Intensity

• Idealism

• Agency

• Limitless Possibility

• Charisma

• Clarity

Front 22

What are the Turned On

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 6 - Excitement?

Back 22

Unbridled Enthusiasm

• Idealism and seeing of limitlesspossibility

• Ability to emanate in equalproportion to receiving

• Feeling of being in alignment withone’s purpose

Front 23

What are the Turned Off

Base Emotion and Felt Sense of

Stage 6 - Excitement?

Back 23

Arrogant superiority or overwhelm

• Sense of fearful incompetence

• Grandiosity – an overblown sense ofpower

• Overwhelm that you are nowresponsible, but do not have the skills

• Laziness – desire for power withoutwork

• Feel like a fraud and fear of beingfound out

• Vanity, arrogance, control, bravado,hypocrisy

Front 24

How to you move on from

Stage 6 - Excitement?

Back 24

Demonstrate willingness, integrity and loyalty to the deeper purpose – a long gameview. Do the real work of taking responsibility and using energy deliberately.